I met a girl online we chated once in a while but i always pushed for the number ...once i got the number it took a while for her to trust me but i finally got her to go out with me ..(.it took a while because she has a boy friend )we whent out for lunch talked and some how ended up in back of my car with me giving her a massage she let me kiss her i was rubing her thighs and when i decided to go further she said she needed to feel more comfortable i pressed on and but didnt get far ...went on second date this time i convinced her to go to a hotel room with me i had her half naked rubing, touching kissing her ...she also took my shirt off it got prety hot but then she would not go further ...she sais she has to realy thing about things .and bla bla bla we went out one more time and this time she wanted to fuking talk nothing phisical ...so now i kinda ignore her some times i text her and she always want to text me and talk. do you guys think i should move on or keep pushing ..i mean i had this girl half naked and she didnt want to do any thing ...i also dont want to be in the friend zone. what should i do? How do i get in this girls pant ..?

Two things:

Situation 1: You're telegraphing something to her. Usually she doesn't get the vibe that you're a player. Girls who have boyfriends and cheat do so with two kinds of guys:
- Guys who are "bad boys"/ players and they would never even tell their own friends that they hooked up with.
- Guys who have potential to be their boyfriend. Usually, they'll play around but not put out because they want you to chase them.
Perhaps you were not aggressive enough- when women sense the "boyfriend material" vibe, in my opinion- they never put out.

Situation 2: She's just teasing- next her.

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The entire situation...

1) Have many other women on the go. This one isn't that important. She's not special, and doesn't seem really available.

2) She's fucking around on her boyfriend. She'll do the same to you.

In general, for a situation like this, my best advice is to be less available. Tell her your busy fairly often. When she does hit you up with a sappy text respond with "I'm busy right now, let's meet up this weekend" etc. If she turns down the offer I don't care. On to other girls. If she says yes, I get her out, have fun and escalate.

If this stuff continues, and she is never ready for sex then I usually give an ultimatum, but to where it doesn't seem like one.

"I've been enjoying this time, and I get that you have boyfriend issues that yall have to deal with, but I'm not looking for a long term relationship right now. But you are fun, and I think if we were to drop all of the outside drama and just have fun together we'd both enjoy it. So figure out if that's something you want and let me know."

She asked me today
Her - when are we going to hang out again?
Me - well i like hanging out with you but you seem so nervous and shy when we are alone ..like your scared of me ..dont worry i dont bite
Her - its not that im shy or afraid of you its that you like to touch alot you cant control your hands ..and i feel unconfortable
Me - wow ok idk what to say to that ...ok i promise i will never make you feel that way again
Her - mmm we'll see about that ..lol ..yur so silly:-)
At this point i felt like i shouldnt be investing more of my time with this one i felt like she is just fucking with me or something
Me - listen i like you and im atracted to you and i cant control my self and you know it lol .we always end up making out when we see each other ..so you know what lets not see each other for a while .lets just be" chat buddies"instead .. i rather us just be friends .
Didnt here from her after that ...lol

can you tell me if what i did was wrong and if haddled it right or what i cando next time im in this situation?

Well... don't be her chat buddy, that's for sure.

You get to chat her up while her boyfriend goes balls deep on her. Fuck that.

I think you probably should not have apologized for being handsy. After she said you can't control your hands you should have said "Are you free tonight?" --- with a smiley...

An appropriate response to her chat buddies message would be "That's probably not going to work for me. When you figure out your life and what you want, you know where I'll be"

That is good advise dude but like the other guy says for now im going to "next her"shes to much work for what is worth she has a man its to much trouble when i can go out and find a girl with out the bagage , il keep her around though..it wouldnt hurt to do the same thing she does to me ..if she want to chat il chat about girls so she can give me advise ...thanks guys il keep you posted

Guys i said i would keep you posted on this girl ..and now im fuking confused ...i have basicly ignored this girl in the past two week she started texting me but i wouldnt even answer back or if i did i would keep it down to a few word or wouldnt even text back ..today i recieve a pic of her dressed sexy as fuck . which btw. i didnt even ask for ,so i made nothing of it .just said she looks "cute" then we exchanged a cuple more text ..finaly she sais she want to see me again ..if you read earlyer posts you can see ive bewn thru this before ...i need help F closing this girl by this point i dont care if i see her again ...i need to kno from you expert what to do because ive tryed it all. Ive had her practicly naked and she gave me Lmr. I need some advise or ..i need to know if its just a way for her to get attention and should i even bother to meet her