I been in the game for 3 years now, for those who are interested, here is my journal back to 2011

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I recently heard about the BDSM communitties through a girl I pickup about a month ago. I guess some part of me is craving for new challenges. See and experiencing a new underground group is quit exciting. I will post here some of my discoveries and fun stories.


First Munch
Date: 2014-11-27
Place: Montreal, downtown, some small bar

A munch is a code word for casual normal hangout. That means all cloth are on, people sit around a private bar and socialize in order to get know others. Usually there is people organizing play parties and search for "playmate" in munches.

Contreras to what I though people are actually very friendly. Between 2 beers I met an Asian woman who seems very dominant and she end up inviting me to a play party the week after.

BDSM: bondage/discipline, dominant/submissive, Sado-masochism

I realize that most people who do munch are dominant, due to their primary personality. rarely know that submissive will go to a meeting alone without his/her dom. Which make meeting a sub during munch way harder.

Cant wait for the party.

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I'm dom so I know how hard can it be to find a sub. but still, it's part of the fun. But I dislike all that organization scheme people make. sounds too disgusting. I just find girls with the same interests by normal pua activities.

thx for the info. still very new into bdsm, if you had to sum up on how to be a good dom into 4 pts, what would they be.
also a good demo video on simple rope play would be amazing.

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First Play Party
date: 05/12/14
location: Montreal

excited like a kid on Christmas eve, I arrived about 1 hour earlier to the dungeon. There were med tables, swing bed, chaines, ass play chairs and even cross thing in wood that you can attache people backward on it.<

I was excited but cant really let myself fully go there.

about an hour later, there is girls arriving in corset, latex suite, even topless, actually most girls are topless.
Since I'm a beginner, I mostly watched other guy play with the girls. what fascinate me the most is the openness of people. Some people were fucking in the middle of a room while other can just pass by and watch them in the act, even an lesbian couple watch and mastubate to each and other. They call it exhibitionist.

Alot of paddle action was going around, some are giving to girls who are tied up on a bench, others simply inside a cage. or tied on the swing bed.

Some people got also tied up and humiliated while being naked and there were both sexes. I really though all this will shock me but i guess all these years of picking up girls in clubs made me immune to vulgar scene.

around 12h30, a goth looking dom arrive with his 2 slaves and they were doing a sort of weird 3some where 1 one of the girl got tied up to the wood cross and blindfolded, while he wipe that girl he got sucked by the other one. Man, after 3 years of pickup, I never seen a guy have this much control over his partners and make them beg for their soul. I wanted to ask him how he do it. But one of the rule of the dungeon was not interrupt plays.
There was something artful about that scene stuck in my head, craving of control? maybe but idk.
For the rest of the night. I just walked silently watching from room to room, different plays that is happening.
Near the end of the night, a tall guy from Scotland showed me some trick with the rope. I practice them on a chubby girl and got it all mess up. I guess Rome was not built in one day.

honesty play a big part of the party, if you want to play with some one, you have to tell them everything. Couples are open for a 3 persons scene however I was confused on what I want. some part i want to join some play but just dont know how to do it and having the wrong vibe shoved me in my head.

around 2am, in the cuddle room, I was cuddling an asian girl with her friend after their play. Idk if they were trying to initiate a threesome with me but I couldn't escalate. All I have to do was ask but I just can't.
It was an ocean of noises, sound of people getting spanked or hurt and that metal sound in the background cover by all the moan of the people.

it make me realize that sex is an enjoyment and there is no reason why you are not enough. Deep down we all crave some kink. Seeing it live, it was impressive.
Now I just have to take part on the next one.

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First Play Party
date: 05/12/14
location: Montreal

excited like a kid on Christmas eve, I arrived about 1 hour earlier to the dungeon. There were med tables, swing bed, chaines, ass play chairs and even cross thing in wood that you can attache people backward on it.<

I was excited but cant really let myself fully go there.

about an hour later, there is girls arriving in corset, latex suite, even topless, actually most girls are topless.
Since I'm a beginner, I mostly watched other guy play with the girls. what fascinate me the most is the openness of people. Some people were fucking in the middle of a room while other can just pass by and watch them in the act, even an lesbian couple watch and mastubate to each and other. They call it exhibitionist.

Alot of paddle action was going around, some are giving to girls who are tied up on a bench, others simply inside a cage. or tied on the swing bed.

Some people got also tied up and humiliated while being naked and there were both sexes. I really though all this will shock me but i guess all these years of picking up girls in clubs made me immune to vulgar scene.

around 12h30, a goth looking dom arrive with his 2 slaves and they were doing a sort of weird 3some where 1 one of the girl got tied up to the wood cross and blindfolded, while he wipe that girl he got sucked by the other one. Man, after 3 years of pickup, I never seen a guy have this much control over his partners and make them beg for their soul. I wanted to ask him how he do it. But one of the rule of the dungeon was not interrupt plays.
There was something artful about that scene stuck in my head, craving of control? maybe but idk.
For the rest of the night. I just walked silently watching from room to room, different plays that is happening.
Near the end of the night, a tall guy from Scotland showed me some trick with the rope. I practice them on a chubby girl and got it all mess up. I guess Rome was not built in one day.

honesty play a big part of the party, if you want to play with some one, you have to tell them everything. Couples are open for a 3 persons scene however I was confused on what I want. some part i want to join some play but just dont know how to do it and having the wrong vibe shoved me in my head.

around 2am, in the cuddle room, I was cuddling an asian girl with her friend after their play. Idk if they were trying to initiate a threesome with me but I couldn't escalate. All I have to do was ask but I just can't.
It was an ocean of noises, sound of people getting spanked or hurt and that metal sound in the background cover by all the moan of the people.

it make me realize that sex is an enjoyment and there is no reason why you are not enough. Deep down we all crave some kink. Seeing it live, it was impressive.
Now I just have to take part on the next one.

_________________
My Journal the-journey-of-a-reborn-man-vt133974.ht ... t=montreal
Product suggest:
Tao of badasses
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