So i went direct with this girl at a convenience store. She seemed to really like that I hit on her direct. We talked for about 3-5 min then i had to get back to work. I text her and she replies. I asked her when she was free and she said she would look at her schedule and get back to me.

She text me earlier today asking if i have a facebook or any other social media. I responded with "so you want to stalk me now" and she said "haha no i am just hesitant because i dont know anything about you for sure." I told her my full name then said she can stalk me if she likes however my facebook only has a few pictures, it would be better to talk on the phone."

She hasn't replied to that however she seems interested in possibly meeting. I didn't get a lot of face time with her so how can i make her comfortable with meeting up for a first date?

So let her investigate you...

Sounds like a girl with a brain actually. If your background check goes well, then she'll likely go out with you.

Maintain interest though - and keep your options open (I assume you have a few other girls like this one on the go?)

I would hit her up again in a day or two... ask if your background check came back clean and if she's ready for that beer yet

I am talking to 3 other girls. I was hooking up with one regularly however she hasn't replied to my last text.

It's very difficult finding my facebook online because i have a very common name so unless you know specific things about me i doubt she will find anything.

I will text her asking how my background check went probably wednesday and post back here with what turns up. Thanks for the advice. Any other advice is appreciated!

It seems likely to me that she might flake, if she even agrees to a date. 3-5 minutes is not alot of time to build rapport. Maybe call her or text a little more with her, to get a bit of a connection. Keep it light, a little role playing, and stuff.

When I #close at work I usually like to call them directly, cause if you only talked to her in that one enviroment and only for a couple of minutes she most likely already forgot what you look or sound like.

Yea i'll try my best. I really didn't even expect to get her number so i didn't build too much rapport. I'll text her some fun stuff in a few days and see how she responds.

just let her do her thing and keep running game - she wont find you are ACTUALLY a serial killer by looking at your facebook.

as long as your facebook doesnt make you look bad you are fine but i dont think you needed to show her in the first place.

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I had a girl who was really hesitant about meeting guys over Tinder and I gave her my facebook adress, which really helped. If you want to be a solid PUA, you should have a trim, well thought out facebook page anway. Were almost in 2015, facebook is just part of the game, if you want it or not.

Well she has my facebook however she didn't add me as a friend. Weird. I am having my doubts she will meet up with me. I need to get her on the phone so i can work my magic cus my text game isn't connecting. Any thoughts on how i can get her on the phone ? I am going to throw this hail marry and if the receiver doesn't catch it i am just gonna delete the number and try again with more efficient game with another girl.

First of all, don't delet the number. If it goes nowhere in the next couple of days just leave her be and hit her up with a witty, funny text in a couple of weeks. Christmas is around the corner, just send her some funny line or an image or something at the end of the month. I love SPAM for that kind of stuff, I always reconnect with girls, that went cold by sending a pic of something funny I saw on the street or smth. Yesterday I sent three girls the same image of my groceries (which consists mostly of eggs, meat and red bull) asking them if i should become a nutrition specialist. I always take pictures of random shit like that, add a funny line and send it to a bunch of chicks. 99% reply. It's fun, playful and nobody else in her phonebook is gonna be silly like that.

Secondly, call her while youre out grocery shopping or something along those lines. If she picks up, tell her youre really busy but you felt bad, that you didn't have time to get in touch with her more and you wanted to hit her up. Tell her a funny story that made you think about her, get a little bit of rapport going and as soon as you feel she is biting, end the call. If everything went well you should have her hooked.
If she doesnt pick up just leave her a short fun message. Just keep it light and playful. Don't pressure her, don't even mention that you want to meet her. Just tell her something funny, or interesting and that's it.

We'll I will give that a try. I have nothing to lose. I have some funny text that i send out. I could ping her then eventually go ask for the hangout in a week or two. Any other thoughts?

Well I actually went back to the gas station. I was talking to one of the employees there and he remembered me from when I was hitting on her in the first place. He said he really didn't know her to well but she would be back later. I remember us talking about hershey candy bars so I bought a candy bar and left a note on it for her. The dude said he would give it to her whens he got back.

The next day I receive several text messages about how she loved the note i left on the candy bar. We text for the whole day. I didn't ask her out then and there. So today i text her with one of my best text openers and nothing >.<

I will try her again on wednesday. This girl is way too frustating. It might be time to put it on a back burner and aim for this hot girl who works at my job.

First of all: The Note-Thing: Fucking money, dude. Really great! Love it!

To the question why she didn't reply the next day I can only asume, but is it possible you seemed to eager in your texts? It's often not so much about the texts and more about the... subtext of the text...
How do you text? SPAM, Facebook, Phone? How long does she usually take to reply, how long do you take. How long and open ended are her texts, and yours... Thats all stuff thats going to figure in to the equation.

Maybe read up on some text game material (Im sure Chief, or somebody else is gonna have links on their finger tips, otherwise google). But here a couple of quick points I can't help but make:
- Mirror her text behaviour. If she uses particular smileys use them as well. Speak her language. I usually try to write my texts somewhat grammatically correct and with proper punctuation. But if the girl can't even be bothered to write full sentences I'm gonna adjust. Same with text length: If she asks you a 3 word question like "how's your day" or "tell me xxxx" don't give her a 700 character answer.
- Take your time. Wait at least as long as it took her to reply. If you had to wait 3 hours for her reply, make her wait 4. It's silly and childish, but if you answer to everything she says within 5 minutes she's subconsciously gonna think, you have nothing better to do than hover over your phone, waiting for her texts. I know it's hard but text game requieres patience. Another reason to always game a couple of chicks at a time, if one doesn't reply you can concentrate on another one.
I usually text with girls I'm not even that interested in, just to keep my mind occupied when I'm really itching to talk to another girl, who takes her sweet time to text me back.
- Texts are about setting up meetings. Texts don't get you laid. Physical escalation does. The ultimate goal is to keep comfort levels up so she feels good about meeting you and actually setting up the damn date. Sometimes, due to logistics you're stuck texting for days or even weeks (just happened to me recently, with a chick that visited family in another country for 10 days) but texting is about the lowest rung on your ladder to sex.

You are barking up a tree w/ this girl because the initial interaction wasn't as solid as it could have been since as you said you didn't expect that you were going to do a # close.

3 to 5 minutes is way more than enough face time to secure a meeting.

Clean up your presentations so that you are giving them solid info about yourself - otherwise you're just some random guy who she knows nothing about. Hit them up over text and arrange a meeting. Let her have the long text convos with her bffs.

My text game is solid. I sent her a text saying that when I buy a voodoo doll i am going to kill iggy azalea. Then i ask how was her weekend. Not the exact words but general concept. Now that text gets a reply rate of 99.9%. Its one of my better ones.

There usually is a 10 - 30 minute pause between text which i mirror myself.
I guess in retrospect I should have spent more time building a solid foundation for this interaction to carry out but since thats in the past i cant worry about it, only correct it in the future.

My plan of action is to see if she responds today and if not shoot her a really simplified text of "Hey what sup (insert name). I might even say fuck it and call her Wednesday and skip the text and leave a voicemail if she doesn't pick up. My phone game is solid.

I agree I am barking up the wrong tree with this girl, most girls would have complied to a meeting by now however she definitely is above 50% interest in me so there is a chance.

So she just sent me a text while typing this.

So she responded positively asking to see a picture then told me about her weekend. I told her about mine and then ask her when she was free to meet up. No reply

* Points gun at face and pulls trigger *

I can ping her again in a week or so however I doubt there is anything I can do through text message that will build up enough comfort for her to meet up with me. I'll just wait to see her again in person if that ever happens. Thoughts?