Are you sure that you are negging correctly? Do you have a good reason for negging her? If you are just giving her a put down, then of course she will take it personally. If you are negging playfully, she shouldn't have an issue with it unless she is overly emotional. It reminds me of those guys who insult their girlfriends in order to make them insecure because they are afraid that they may leave them for another guy.

I always thought that verbalizing DHV is relatively weak for most occasions because it is nothing more than bragging and it can be seen through pretty easily. Now that your girlfriend has known you over a year she already knows who you are, so why do you need to brag to her?

But does game apply once you are in a relationship? Of course it does. It just doesn't mean you play the game the same way because you are playing the game on a different level.

Perhaps I am negging incorrectly, but I tend to neg instinctively. I do my best to never show insecurity. I'm also quite subtle with my DHVs, if I verbalize anything, it would be something like "See I have good taste". Again, I feel I tend to do this instinctively.

Game gets the girl in bed. Orgasms get her emotions for you going.

Once you are in a relationship, game is irrelevant and I don't use it. The only thing you need to focus on once in a relationship is, does this woman meet your desires in a relationship. If she does, do your best to meet hers. And EVERY woman wants a man who is strong, admirable, and knows how to please them sexually.

In other words, the game is over when you are in a relationship. How would you like it if she constantly negged you, said and did things to display value. The truth is, at that point, all you want is someone who makes your life easier, makes you happier, and keeps your balls empty. Neither party needs game to do this.

Game gets the girl in bed. Orgasms get her emotions for you going.

Once you are in a relationship, game is irrelevant and I don't use it. The only thing you need to focus on once in a relationship is, does this woman meet your desires in a relationship. If she does, do your best to meet hers. And EVERY woman wants a man who is strong, admirable, and knows how to please them sexually.

In other words, the game is over when you are in a relationship. How would you like it if she constantly negged you, said and did things to display value. The truth is, at that point, all you want is someone who makes your life easier, makes you happier, and keeps your balls empty. Neither party needs game to do this.

It's not "game" if its who you are.

You could maybe stop being such a dick to her (that's all I think when I hear neg. You don't need to neg a girl. You just need to be able to stand up for yourself.) and stop telling stupid "dhv" stories. You don't need to "game" her and "build attraction." She already likes you. Just be you.

This post is so fucking stupid its irritating. The fact that you think you've been "gaming" this girl you've been in a relationship with for the last year. Do you realize how retarded that sounds?

It's not what you do. It's who you are.

Girls leave guys all the time. You can't be who you are to keep a girl, unless you are person who knows how to naturally respond to female behaviors well and remain so, tests by them etc. Women don't stop being women. There are many, many game concepts that apply even after 20 years of marriage. You know what a hen-pecked husband or a cuckolded one is?

Many men get lazy when they are in a relationship. The young athletic guy who hits the gym and pursues women, slowly becomes the older guy who hits the beer can and pursues the doritos. As they transform themselves, they slip deeper and deeper into betatude, increasingly starting to feel less and less abundance, while showing more and more appeasement to their wives and girlfriends and they just slide even further down the beta channel.

I am sorry: In a broad sense, game always applies.

Girls leave guys all the time. You can't be who you are to keep a girl, unless you are person who knows how to naturally respond to female behaviors well and remain so, tests by them etc. Women don't stop being women. There are many, many game concepts that apply even after 20 years of marriage. You know what a hen-pecked husband or a cuckolded one is?

Many men get lazy when they are in a relationship. The young athletic guy who hits the gym and pursues women, slowly becomes the older guy who hits the beer can and pursues the doritos. As they transform themselves, they slip deeper and deeper into betatude, increasingly starting to feel less and less abundance, while showing more and more appeasement to their wives and girlfriends and they just slide even further down the beta channel.

I am sorry: In a broad sense, game always applies.

No shit dude.

It all comes down to one thing though... Don't turn into a little bitch.

If you're a year and a half into a relationship with a girl and you think your DHV stories and negs are keeping her around, you're really fucked up in the head. Did you ever think... "hmm? Maybe she just likes me for who I am?"

"Game" is just a front. It's an act that guys put on. It's what human beings do. We mimic other people. We are like parrots.

Ever heard the saying "you are a product of your environment"....?

All "PUA" has you do is mimic things that a guy who gets laid does and some of his personality traits that work for him. That's it. Quit being all weird about this shit. No wonder your girlfriend doesn't like you anymore. You're still trying to DHV her or whatever.

You don't have to "game" a girl if she actually fucking likes you.

Once again, it's not what you do. It's who you are.