Hi, yesterday me and my friend had discussion on keeping in touch with girls via messegers, and we came to one question- Do we need message to girls, to hold somekind of connection with them, even after hookup. Or having 2 times per week meetup with certain girls?

that question came because, we know that in online you use only words, and not having that physical touch or vibe?

I guess its ok provided that u dont appear to be needy. Its gud for her to have a reminder of u n message will just do. However do not indulge in long talks over messages.Be brief, 2 or 3 funny comments/jokes n then u r done.

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Chat Messaging depends on what stage of the interaction you are at.

1. Before the First Date:

Use messaging to build comfort and get her to a stage where she is willing to meet you in person. There are various techniques I have developed to know if the time is right without asking outright.

2. After the first date but before the close

If you did not manage to have sex with her on the first date, you need to keep building comfort with her over messager. In fact, consider escalating sexually to make sure that next time you meet, you don’t waste too much time and get straight to business!

3. After sex

This is up to you. If you never want to see her again, just dont message her. If you might want to sleep with her every once in a while, send her the occasional funny comment, but otherwise use messenger to set up the next meeting a day or two before. If you want to develop a relationship, then continue having conversations on messenger and consider meeting her more than once a week.


Happy Tindering!

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