| Online dating sounds easy doesn't it, most guys whoa re afraid to open with a girl resort to online dating thinking that it'll be so much easier but here are some pros and cons
Pros
1) opening is easier. most guys who have NO luck in person can message a girl like it isn't nothing. confidence is gained online, and things they would NEVER say in person is said online. Plus a quick glance at her profile can give you information to create the perfect opener
2) time to think. You really have much much longer to think of a response or opener online cause it isn't a face to face conversation, you can look up jokes, get advice, look up information on things she like, without her even knowing
3) LYING, although every good PUA has lied his ass off to a girl atleast once, alot of guys online lie and make themselves look like some glamorous superman when in reality they're nothing. some guys who aren't really attractive make up super interesting profiles that draw girls in. and cause the girl to fall in love with a lie. some guys even change their profile to perfectly match a girl they wants (genius)
4) its ALOT easier to find girls who are "perfect" for you. you can read a girl page look at questions she answered and study her pictures before sending her a message. plus some dating sites allow you to see how much of a match you are with a certain person.
5) Hook ups are so much easier. Girls are VERY bold online...If you're very attractive some girls will even message you begging for a hook up, i did a study with one of my friends who alot of women find (very attractive) not only did 9/10 he messaged he replied but multiple girls a day would message him asking could they hook up or go out....funny thing is his profile was an exact copy of mines and girls who dissed me were begging him for his number or a date.
6) First dates can almost guarantee you some. This one might be based off my luck but the few girls i got a date from literally 8/10 i had sex with on the first date. After chatting online and seeing how much of a match you are i think girls feel they can be comfortable with you, so i wouldn't EXPECT IT, but don't be surprised if you get it
CONS
1) rejection without rejection, the thing i like about real life is if a girl doesn't like you she'll say no, personally i can count the times i've been rejected in person on my hands but online i've probably been successful 20% of the time (sad i know lmfao) sad thing is girls online don't have the courtesy to say NO, maybe it's because soo many guys try or maybe its because they're all bitches who love tormenting guys lol who knows but i can ensure you if te reason you're trying online dating is because you're afraid of rejections, you might as well start getting over that fear
2) Stuck up Girls, Girls have a huge choice in guys she'll answer to or message. girls who are no more than 5's feel as if they are 10's online. thins huge fat girl had on her page she only likes fit guys, and it said she replies very selectively. I guess beggers can be chooser lmfao but girls can have a super high match with you, look at your page, then not reply, i never thought i was ugly until i tired online dating lmao
3) Other guys, Some guys have HORRIBLE GAME, stalking girls pages, sending constant messages, saying oversexual things as openers, just horrible things... GIrls have gotten tired of it so they rarely even reply. then alot of guys give girls horrible first dates, so alot of women online have become afraid to even meet guys in person, causing you to have to message her constantly for days and days....which comes to con number 4
4) Lost of interest. imagine this..you're messaging a girl for days, everything going smoothly, she's "laughing" writing long messages back and forth, everything looks great. then one day *boom* no reply, what did you do, what did you say, were you boring her the whole time, did she find somebody else, did she even see my message, let me send it again, still no reply, let me go on her page to see has she been online, oh she's online now? wow is my page glitched, what should i do, should i give up..send her another message?? should i ask what i did wrong? should I i tell her i enjoyed talking to her and leave?......now imagine that scenario maybe 4 or 44 times lmao men are logical creatures we want answer, if we did something wrong we like to fix it. so this is my biggest thing lol
5)your page and opener is EVERYTHING this could be a good thing or a bad thing, if you're a boring unattractive person then you're going to have a rough time online, realize the girls who should be on your level is getting messages by guys who above you, so unless you love to lie your ass off i would avoid online dating, also your opener is the difference between "let me check out your page" and "let me just delete this"....openers that work in real life don't work as well online, Never just send "hey how are you, my name is ____" 9/10 youll never get a reply...my advice to you is to check out her page, find something you can make into a joke, add your opinion on something she likes. funny thing is most girls who send messages will say something along the lines of "hi how are you" or for me "you're a complete asshole no wonder you're on here" jk
online dating isn't as bad as im making it, but there are ALOT of troubles for men on there. honestly i have MUCH MUCH MUCH better luck in person than online, but it could be the other way around for some people. im just telling you some of my experiences to give you an idea of online dating before you try it......i think in person game is alot more critical to have than online dating skills, especially in a world where more and more people are trying the online thing.......if anybody else has ay experiences with online dating i ask you to share them with us....my experiences might be bad but im sure more people have good experiances
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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie
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