Hey guys,
Broke up with a long term partner a couple of months ago and just getting back into the swing of things. It's been a long time and I need some critiquing of my messages with this chick.
Platform: Tinder
My age: 23
Her age: 20
Convo:
Me: Michael Kors and a Disney tatoo.. Interesting style
Her: Hehe I try, they're my favourite x
Me: Classy lady ey? I'm intrigued about this tattoo, you should add it to your photos.. I feel like I'm playing where's wally
Her: I have 'to infinity and beyond' tattoo'd between my shoulder blades x
Me: Do you imagine yourself as buzz lightyear when pressing those weights? x
Her: To be fair, a little. I love the gym x
Me: Brownie points for admitting that! I'd love to see someone throwing out moves like that but tbh it's normally me! x
Her: I need a gym bud x
Me: If you can demonstrate your skills count me interested x
<She didn't respond and I notice a weird emoticon guide she posted as a 'moment'. I used this to start it up again by using the "You're not my type" one>
Her: Why am I not allowed to message you again?
Her: Wait, I meant why am I not your type? x
Me: I'm worried you'll embarrass me at the gym x
Her: Haha why?! Thanks
x
Me: Because you seem like a challenge. What if you show me up with your moved! x
Me: I'm kidding, I used to be a freelance personal training in my hometown. Adore this kinda stuff and I see a rare dedication in you x
Her: <rambles for a while about her body insecurities> .. I think you'll have to give me some personal training to get me to the standard your thinking of! And why are you 200km away?
Me: You've lost 2 stone, that's a great achievement. You best keep it up! And you'll be at that level if you can manage my workouts
And I'm going for business meetings with clients today.. Can't wait! x
Her: Are you coming back up? Where are you from down south? And thank you, I don't see it that way though (her progress)
Me: Course I'm coming back up, couldn't be missing out workout
. Only here for business and to see my little brother and sister. Already miss city life! And you should be proud of how far you've come and look forward to how far your going to go missy! x
Her: Haha, good. I was about to say (regarding me coming up). And aww that's so cute. Where are you from down south?
Her: Thank you Mr. Motivator. I actually need to get a personal trainer
Me: Little town called <townname>. Walking the dog in fields, knowing every face in town, peace and quiet.. It's luxury! x
Me: And ok I'll be your trainer if you're up for the challenge xx
Her: You serious! I'm up for anything xx
Me: Course I am, why not ey. You can serve as motivation for me to go
<talk about which gym for a bit>
Me: So missy, what's your current regime and what's your target? xx
Her: I just do basic cardio. I need someone to whip my ass into shape
Her: And I want to be 8 stone xx
Me: Well I can certainly do that xx
Her: What, whip my ass into shape? I really need it xx
Me: Well looks like you're in luck. That's my speciality
Her: I'm actually serious! xx
Me: Haha ok chill missy, I'll get you on track easy xx
Her: Hehe I'll hold you to that xx
Me: That you can, I always deliver. We need to get your ass squatting asap xx
Her: We do! Need to be motivated by you!! xx
Me: This isn't a one way street mischief xx
Her: I'll pay you! xx
Me: I don't need money. You can just be my gym chick or something xx
Her: That would be awesome. I would like to pay for it though xx
Me: It's a no! xx
Her: Alright boss xx
Me: That's better
Her: Full of it! xx
Me: You think? xx
Her: 10000%
Me: It's my role as your trainer xx
Her: To be the boss? xx
Ok so basically I can't gauge the attraction level. When she was on about her ass being whipped into shape I was busy so sent shitty replies, but then again was she being sexual?
And where do I go from here? You can probably tell it's been a while!
Much love guys
CHAT
