Hey guys. I've been dating this girl I met for a month and a half. We met on pof and two weeks back she told me she wasn't seeing anyone else but also that she has deleted her pof.
We aren't officially together. We have seen each other a lot and she said her last pof date before me two days before we met.

Should I mention to her something like "I was closing my open windows on safari on my phone and your pof profile was one of the last open windows..... So you couldn't bring yourself to close it huh? " in a playful way or should I say nothing until we are exclusive? Will calling her out strengthen my position as partner potential or is that jealous behaviour?

It's more about doing something you say you have and trust..... I wish I had been blissfully ignorant but now I'm not. What do I do?

Why the fuck?! Go see other girls. You're getting desperate and controling. You two just went out a few dates, not exclusive. She can see and fuck who the fuck she wants. And stop reading into every single small details.

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What about the fact that she said she did but she didn't. What about the lie?

Is there no playful angle I can take and sincerely mean saying I was cleaning out, saw you on there because I had it open from ages ago and say something like "I know you said were not exclusive so it's cool if you're dating other guys etc"

Can someone please help me on this part?

Screw her. I mean literally, fuck her while you can. Then fuck her some more. Then chuck her when something better comes along. Those are her intentions with you.

Sorry, but it's true.

you got yourself a common HOE - move on bro, tell her and MOVE ON!

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oneitis alert. actually, stalker alert.

Everyone lies. That's the reality. It's your choice to choose whether you can overlook it for whatever purpose you're gaming her for. Again always judge people based on their action, not their words.

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Been a development. She has had her phone open in front of me scrolling through apps and says pof right there in blue and big. Can I make a funny comment about if she's got any funny messages etc?

I'm not sure you're actually taking any of the advice you're getting.

What you're doing is a bit creepy, man.

She is NOT in a relationship with you. She is allowed to be on plenty of fish.

You're asking for help and yet you have not listened to a SINGLE word we said. I will repeat myself for the last time. SHE IS NOT YOUR WHORE. YOU HAVEN"T PUT A RING ON IT. She can even fuck a random stranger in front of you and there's not a thing you can do about it. Give it a rest and stop with all the controlling shits. She's gonna run away from you as far as she can if you're keeping this up.

Put yourself in her shoes. If a chick you went out on a few dates with (you might not even like her, you just agreed to it because you were lonely and she offered to take you out and paid for you or for whatever the reason was) suddenly going through your phone and your stuffs, saying you can't talk to other girls, how would you feel? "Yea she's batshit crazy. We're not even dating and she's already like this. I can't imagine how crazy she would get once we're exclusive"

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Thanks GKS.

I realized last night that there's nothing I can potentially gain from it either. Ignorance may be better that way.

I'm sorry it's seemed like I haven't listened or I'm not greatful. I just like this one a lot. I'm not desperate or controlling but it annoys me that someone doesn't do what they say they do. Just on principle.

I appreciate all the responses.

If it were me, I'd have a little fun with her.

Put up a fake, totally alpha profile with some handsome guy. Download an app called Pinger. Then game her on the fake profile. Make her drive about two hours, on a Friday night, to meet a guy that is never gonna show up.

Or: "Yeah, I didn't want to come out and tell you this: but about two weeks before I met you, I was doing coke and banging these hookers at my friend's stag party. Well... you'd better go see a doctor. He could explain it better than me. I cannot even pronounce half the shit they diagnosed me with."

I don't see the point of this. You're wasting your time and energy on something that is not gonna gain you any benefit. You simply walk away because you decide to pursue someone else who is worth your time and effort so why linger around for some revenge like this

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Thanks you for your undivided opinion, but I can really care less. I'm engaging on conversation. If that is something you would not do, great I guess.

But honestly, to reply to someone's post and "roll" your eyes at it because their opinion differs from your opinion is pretty stupid. It either means you think the world should follow your beliefs - or you're trying to impress everyone, proving you have a better opinion.

But again, thanks for letting me know your opinion is different from mine. I'll make a note of it in my "thing: so I can remember what you would do.

Don't say anything and learn to not care. Girls will lie. They will lie a good bit sometimes. The only time you call out a girl on a lie (a lie that isn't really that important_ is if you are in a serious relationship and you expect honesty.

She might have deleted it and then restarted it after a while, or one night when she was at home alone and bored. You never know. Calling her out on it just seems childish.