So theres that girl and she's into me right,
we got out one time and kissed but it didnt workout
shes one of these girls that say "I want to get to know you first before we have sex"
the type that you gotta make real hard effort for you to have sex
she did say that actually, and i never mentioned anything about sex

The big issue here is that this week I'm recruiting,(Joining the army)
and ill be home every 14 days(if im lucky),the predicted is every 21 days
which is really fucking long,and if i come home and dont have sex ill fucking lose it lol

This is a question not just about her,its for any other girl i meet and encounter this shit
how to handle it ?

Just remember that there's a difference between what she says and what's actual reality. What's said is usually an attempt to not appear to be a slut. Reality tells you that if she's talking about sex with you, she's already thinking about having sex with you. All you need to do is make it happen. I'm willing to bet that if you just make out with her for a short time period, she will practically beg you for sex.

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Im 99% sure she's a virgin tho
So in that case its probably true what she says
and according to her last bf which is a friend of a friend
they've been together for 4 months,never had sex and finally they broke up

upp?

I'm not sure what you're asking here.
How do convince a girl have sex with you, even if she doesn't want to? You can't. And focusing on her intellectual side will not do you a lot of good.

How can you get her to want to?
Get her horny. Again, it's not what you say, it's what you can make her feel.

I mean, that's about all you can do. Get her alone, get her horny, try to fuck her. That is a process that works out pretty well in the aggregate, though it is never a sure thing. There is nothing that %100(or even %80) assures that any particular woman will fuck you.

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I agree with this 100% the only thing I would add is that if she is a virgin it makes the process easier. The virgin/ good girls don't get angry if you persist and they enjoy the touching and intimacy because they feel you are touching them for them and not just thirsty for sex. I think your problem is the process of going from a kiss to penetration itself.

The girl I mentioned in my Friday FR gave me the most resistance I've ever encountered. My skills are sharper than ever so I was able to get off her pants to discover it was her time of the month. (my god nearly 2 hours of work!) Anyway, I don't know your process but what works best for me is to start off making out. There are usually 6-7 levels of exploration between our lips touching and my finger in her pussy.

Smoothly get up to the pussy, if she rejects backtrack a few steps and become more intense (still pleasurable you want to turn up the heat) and work back towards the the pussy. Just repeat the whole back tracking and progressing thing until she consents or leaves. You'll have to finger her enough to get her hot enough to just let you fuck which varies from girl to girl.

This works best with good girls. Slutty drunk bitches get offended by this type of behavior and view it as desperate since other guys get their panties off easy. Plus they don't enjoy the intimacy the way the good girls do. The sex holds emotional value to the good girl, but it's like shaking hands for the slut.

Back on topic, taking it slow is the absolute worse thing you can do with this girl. You need to try and sleep with her asap, and keep trying every time you get her alone until you succeed. If she keeps blocking your attempts, but keeps coming back around...then keep trying.

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