Hey guys.
I've been lurking this forum for ages so want to give something back to community. This is my first FR so let's check it out if I'm that good with writing as with ice skating. Just for the record, I'm living in UK.
Recently it got quite cold so my town made ice rink in front of the hall. I'm from Slovakia so in the moment when you know how to walk, you get your pair of skates and hockey stick. When I saw it first time, I tough that that would be an amazing second meeting idea. I was just looking on it as I was walking from my regular bar (I'm there so often that I have happy hour - 2 4 1 drinks all the time) and saying to myself that first girl what I see I'll ask her to go ice skating. As I come to the bus stop, I see this hb7 (I would say 8 but bartender in the bar said that she is 7 so let's leave it like that). We are both after couple a drinks looks like. It's 2am.
Eye contact immediately and I straight away ask her:
Me: do you like Bruno Mars?
HB: yeah, he is all right.
Me: and the movie limitless with Bradley Cooper?
HB: haven't seen it.
Me: OK you scored 1/2 right answers but that's OK cause you're cute. We need to see it together, tough.
HB: yeah, absolutely! What's your name?
Me: (my name), yours?
HB: (name) nice to meet you.
We shake a hands and peck on the cheek.
Me: waiting for a bus 25?
HB: yeah.
Me: so we can wait together!
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HB: absolutely
Me: now I just need to call my mom that I found my dream girl and I'm moving to Argentina with you.
HB: why Argentina?
Me: why not? You pick.
HB: Iceland.
Me: I'm in, we are moving to Iceland.
Me: so you like snow or winter sports?
HB: yeah, a lot!
Me: sweet, I'll take you ice skating this Sunday.
HB: yeah! Where are you from?
Me: guess! You have 3 guesses, if you get it right, I'll get you a drink.
She guess it right on the 3rd time after a few hints.
Me: OK, I own you a drink. And you?
HB: guess, if you guess it right I'll get you a drink.
I didn't guessed it, probably because I suck with accents haha.
Me: looks like I own you 2 drinks. So the plan is: drinks, ice skating and limitless?
HB: looks like a plan.
Now she is super enjoying herself and the bus just arrived so we go in and start taking about regular shit. I ask her for a number but she doesn't know it and her phone is dead. She offers me a fb, I accept even I don't like to exchange fb before name but fuck it, otherwise I don't have any contact. My bus stop was next and I'm saying: kiss for a good night? And lean for the kiss. We make out for like 10 seconds and I'm leaving.
Me: or you can come with me.
HB: I'm not that easy.
Went home, checked her profile and she accepts in few minutes but I'm not going to text her straight away. Was quite happy for that as I was just going from work Friday night and one drink. (One means two as I have two for one cocktails
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Next day we text about the house on Iceland, the cat what we will have and having fun, joking around a lot. Sunday arrives and it's raining terribly and she text me first
HB: you seen what's outside? It's raining!
Me: yeah, I got called from work to not to come cause it's not busy.
Texting quite a bit about nothing really, only we changed the date to tomorrow, so I proceed to clean my house as I have nothing to do. Next day I text first and it's sunny, no clouds at all.
Me: have you been outside? It's beautiful! You just want to go for a walk.
HB: unfortunately I'm in library studying.
Me: just wanted to confirm the time for the evening.
HB: is 8pm all right? Have loads of stuff to do.
Me: yeah, I'll meet you at 8 in the bar.
It's 8, she arrives exactly on time and I'm just putting my scarf off and chatting with bartender. We kiss and I order two drinks. Chat about the day, went for a smoke, chat about jobs, studying and who is what doing or want to do in close future. Got another drink and it's the time to go to icerink.
We get in and on the ice, and do a few circles, I have to say, it was loads of fun and I'm really enjoying this as I haven't skated for around 5 years. One time I come to the wall to rest for a second and she comes next to me. I've just look in her eyes and we start kissing. Go back to skate as we have 45min to go. Do the same routine few more times around the evening. That would probably be it, only one thing when I eat shit and fell on my ass she said "you OK? That was so cute." And as I'm standing up I just say that I wanted to take a rest and sit down. Having fun for the rest, holding hands during ice skating. Romantic shit, my friends.
We finish and go back to the bar. she paid for the next round and I suggest that only movie is on the list. Finish drinks and have some more fun, of course lot of kino but no kissing. We take the bus home and arrive to see my SPAM who are fucking twats. I just don't understand how this couple can exist, holy shit, they are so dumb. I said that we want to watch a movie but she said that they can watch with us. Of course they stay cause the dude is fucking beta and his gf probably don't know how to count to ten. we play a fast game of fusball and throw a few darts.
We start the movie, got in arms and the guy (let's call him CB) offers us 12 yo red wine so we obviously grab a glass. He sends a joint around soon and HB as she is from Amsterdam smokes a bit. No problem with me, I smoke a little too
the cb just didn't stop taking during the movie like a dick so I talk him down. His response?
Cb: who goes to actually watch a movie? Of course it's just an excuse.
I look on him like he just killed my dog but looks like he didn't get it right
Me: just watch a movie please, dude.
OK he shuts up for a minute and few more times I need to ssssshooosh him. If you don't fucking llike it, go fuck your retarded girlfriend to your room.
The end of movie is close and we made out few times and then her wine ran out. As you guys all know, older red wine will leave you a loads of dust like shit inside glass and in your mouth. She ask what is that as I was a bartender and now I'm waiting in a restaurant. Cb starts talking faster then me about red wine as he was a sommelier and know a lot about wine. She is super interested in how to decante the wine and stuff like that. I try to talk a bit but he just speaks.. A fucking awful lot. You really can't speak over him cause he will talk forever and would not stop if you want to say anything really. After 5 minutes, I send his gf a text over phone to get him out.
They finally leave. My whole escalation is broken cause of that douche and i try to go back to the sofa but she checked her phone few times as cb was talking and says that she should go as she got a lecture at 11am. We kiss a bit more and she suddenly stands up. We come to the room and she grabs her jacket. I have no idea what to say cause I'm super pisst of that spit-fuck and just say.
Me: you can stay here.
HB: no, I can't, I need to go.
We kiss more and then she said
HB: I've had an awesome time but I need to go.
Me: yeah that's cool.
I grab my jacket and walk her on her stop we kiss one more time and I say:
Me: I've enjoyed and want to see you tomorrow as I'm working from Wednesday.
HB: I have some sports training so I can't.
Me: yeah, next week then.
HB: maybe.
We kiss one more time and I walk home going to kill my neighbour. Come home, put motherfucking bootleg fireworks and smoke few cigarettes in my room cause I can't hear that fuckers noise. He come to say sorry, I say it's cool and ask him to leave my room. Look down on the floor and see that she forgot her gloves. I've texts her later that night and she response that I can keep it. LOL fuck me..
Lesson learned: move away asap from this guy and when I'm taking girl home, get everyone out of living room.
TL:DR: perfect approach, awesome second meeting, got royally cockblocked by my SPAM.
So what do you guys think?
Sorry for formatting, was on the tablet.
CHAT
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