First meeting: Me, her and her gay friend



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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 8:50 pm 
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Ok I really need help in this one!
There's this girl that I got the number last friday but I barely know.. We've been talking on Facebook and I think she kinda find me cool and funny..

Today I said "Let's do something this saturday"
And she replied "There's a big friend of mine coming to town and we'll go out to drink in the street, come with us!"
and I was "I would go for myself but nahh, I wont do that, he's coming all the way to see you so he probably want to be alone with you" (I was testing if he was really just a friend of something else)
she answered "He is gay! Come with us, he is funny!"

Ok. I really think she wants me to go with them, and I usually do very well with gay friends. But this is first time I'll be in this scenario: Me, a girl I barely know and her childhood gay friend who come from other city to see her.
What you guys think of this scenario? Should I skip it and wait for another time just me and her? Should I go, and if I go, how should I act/what should I do? Any tips, anything? This is my first post and I think I really need help with this! I'm really liking her and I dont want to mess anything!

Thanks a lot guys, and sorry for my bad english (not my language).
Hugs and verything of good for all of you! See ya :D


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 8:56 pm 
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Skip it. He is going to kill the ability to create sexual tension.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 9:48 pm 
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Skip it. He is going to kill the ability to create sexual tension.
Yeah, I agree with you... but in the other hand a friend of mine said maybe the gay friend can end up liking me and helping me to get her. And that its more possible that we wont have those awkward silences.. man, I really idk, everything is possible that's the problem=/


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 10:00 pm 
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Skip it. He is going to kill the ability to create sexual tension.
Yeah, I agree with you... but in the other hand a friend of mine said maybe the gay friend can end up liking me and helping me to get her. And that its more possible that we wont have those awkward silences.. man, I really idk, everything is possible that's the problem=/
Let me ask you this. How often does your friend get laid by different women?

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Skip it. He is going to kill the ability to create sexual tension.
Yeah, I agree with you... but in the other hand a friend of mine said maybe the gay friend can end up liking me and helping me to get her. And that its more possible that we wont have those awkward silences.. man, I really idk, everything is possible that's the problem=/
Let me ask you this. How often does your friend get laid by different women?
Lol, yeah.. not as much as he wanted to


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 24, 2014 8:10 pm 
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well, if she is inviting you along to hang out with this good friend and she barely knows you I think that is a good sign that she is interested in getting to know you better. May be a good op to show your personality and connect more. There is the possibility that they will fall into their own good rapport and you get pushed out a bit. So, I think the safest bet would be to GO but only commit to one drink (maybe you make other plans, or fein having other plans). That way you have an excuse to get out if you don't like the situation, but you do follow up on her invitation. Also, you can always stay around if you feel like it is going well.

I have been in a similar situation, both sides of it actually (inviting someone to join a meeting with another friend and been invited) with successful results the same night. When I invited I was fully aware of the circumstances and it was a nice test to see how they reacted to a part of my life (the old friend). Being invited I went in with zero expectations beyond just having a nice time, possibly making a new friend, and making a good impression on the person I was interested in.

I don't think one can expect to use the friend (gay or otherwise) to get to her. I think the better way to play this situation is just to hope to have a good time and see how you might fit into her circle. It is likely a way for her to feel safe accepting your approaches too.


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