Ok I guess I always need reassurance and stuff with potential relationships, I tend to over-think these things and can never be sure what the other person is thinking...so i apologise if this may sound obvious.

I met this girl online, not through a dating site but through social gaming site and we've never met before in person. I told her I liked her after a few weeks of speaking briefly, her reaction was kind of good nothing like "i Like you too" but she seemed embarrassed and flattered by it and we continued talking.

Recently our conversations have escalated a lot more and they can get sexual sometimes (asking each other what we both like etc, I feel I can turn it sexual pretty easily), she knows i like her like i've said and I always joke in a flirting way of how she likes me too and where will go on our first date and stuff like that. But she will never admit to liking me properly or anything, and when i jokingly say about going on a date will be adamant about not agreeing to go yet. But she will kinda always seem interested and be talking to me till late in the night.
I guess it is still early on since our conversations have escalated, so is she just not wanting to admit anything or agree to anything yet and wait before she does? Or is she not actually that in to me ? I'm confused about it now!

I'm not sure if I understood it right. Have you asked her out, several times, on a date in which she said no to you?

I asked her out once a while ago when I said I had a crush on her, which her response was on the lines of wanting to become more comfortable with people from online etc.

Our conversations have esculated a load since then and we speak a lot more, I flirtatiously say I am going to take you out and stuff and you definitely are into me. She never admits to liking me and says stuff like what makes you think I would agree to go out.

Your first mistake. Never do this. Ever. You SHOW girls you like them. Do not tell them...

She sounds really timid to me... Probably inexperienced (you're on a gaming site? Do you even know what she looks like?)

Next question: Are you even in the same geographical area as her, or is this long distance?

Here's the truth man: Shit gets weird with girls when you tell them you like them. That's why you don't do it. She seems really inexperienced (and so do you, no offense at all).

You'll get nowhere online, and chatting in circles until the wee hours of the morning. If you want to ask her out, then ask her out. Straight up. Do not say "maybe we should go out" or joke about your first date... Tell her that you're going to buy her a beer and ask what night works for her.

You'll get your answer, one way or another - and you can stop wasting your time if it's a negative answer.

Good luck, man.

I realise that was a mistake telling her but I have always liked to use a more direct approach and since it is not a dating site I wanted to let her know I wasn't interested in just being a friend on the site

Yes i know what she looks like otherwise would not be attracted to her.I live about 2 hours away from her, have sent each other snaps and spoken to her on the phone briefly.

If you're a fan of the direct approach, why haven't you 'directly' asked her out, then?

That's a good point !
I think because I asked her originally a few weeks backs and didn't want to push her away and just get a similar response to last time.

Are you sure she's not a HE.

Catfish got pretty popular.

I personally don't understand the appeal of a girl that won't agree to go out that you haven't even met yet. Are you guys friends on Facebook? Have you SPAM? Why don't you try going for those things before meeting up.

And just an F.Y.I

I TELL girls I like them all of the time. ALL OF THE TIME. And it works. Its not about what you do its how you do it. Although I don't say " I like you" like a plain joe. I'm a bit more poetic about it. But women love praise and verbal reassurance as well as actions. So I have to make that correction so you don't get confused.

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Sorry but I'm not getting catfished. I have SPAM with her and even know someone who has seen her in person.

I wouldn't normally see the appeal either. I have used dating sites before to hook up with a few people and go out in bars and clubs to hook up. Starting to get a crush on this particular girl was totally unexpected as I was not looking for anything and it just happened after getting to know her through text based messages and phone calls.
I guess this is the wrong forum to have posted it, basically normally I have been after hook ups and if it doesn't work out on to the next etc. I like this girl for her personality and have gotten to know her as well as can be online which makes me think a lot more and be a lot more nervous than usual.
I was just hoping someone would be able to tell what her feelings could be towards me