I shouldn't have said that I'm not sure how her eating would be an issue. I should have said it wouldn't be an issue. I've eaten meals with many women and not at one point was sex prevented because she has eaten. Does he have to bring food? Nope. It's just not an issue if he plans on seducing her that night. It wouldn't make it any harder and it wouldn't make it any easier.

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You take a lot of girls out that you haven't f-closed yet to dinner? You might be telling the truth I don't know you irl. Lets roll with what you've just said.

So lets say the food doesn't add to her LMR. Ok cool, why spend the extra time and money on food when you can just go for the close within 10 minutes of the movie starting. Since your already by yourself with her.
It may not make it harder, but it does make it take much longer and costs more money. It adds a layer of activity between him walking in her door and him smashing cheeks.

He's taking this advice and will probably develop a style from it. I'm just trying to make his style as clean and crisp as possible. Thanks for the response btw Jack I enjoy these types of conversations.

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Taken some out. Had some cook for me. Met some at social events where food is served.

The fact that you say that a woman will have to take a shit and not want sex is what threw me off. Like you said I don't know you irl...but it would be surprising to know that a woman has told you that she didn't have sex with you because she had to take a shit because she ate dinner.

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I'm about to go to the mall and Day game I'm glad I saw this before I headed out. No a woman has not told me "I need to take a shit" while I was trying to close. If she did I woulda tried for that ass since it was freshly cleaned out. No, it's more along the lines of if you or I eat a big meal our bodies naturally try and have bowel movements. So a guy is sitting there trying to f-close a girl who's thinking about taking a shit, and not focused on him.

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It's that when a girl eats a full meal, she doesn't feel as sexy - not every time and not with every girl, but in general.

Why put up barriers that you don't need to put up, especially when this particular girl wasn't expecting food in the first place.

Anyway, show up at her place food or no food and chill there, she has already invited you over.

In general, with future girls, if the goal is sex, let them be light on their feet and if you can avoid having a full meal with the, do so. Whoever mentioned in this thread about about them wanting to take a shit and feeling a bit bloated or whatever is on point.

Food definitely helps you f-close a HBBW8

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Can i just say ! I gave him advice to take food for 3 reasons.

1. It shows he is comfortable in turning up and making himself homely therefore building comfort in her place for himself because he clearly isnt very experienced.

2. It brings you under the radar of if you turn up with a DVD like hello heres my dick for you.

3. A girl eating food doesnt stop her from fucking.

TO THE OP... dude shes evidently into you all you have to do is do what i said take over food have some food, put on the movie, escalate and fuck her ! Trust me it will work no problem atall. Shes into you alot plus if your sitting eating right from the get go she wont feel awkward or anything of the sort.

Hope it works out dude

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OK

So I've been thinking about all the advice on here.
And...I'm just going to show up without the foods.
I'll explain that I had no time ( shitty day at work for real !! ) to buy some and that we should just catch a real quick snack.
No she won't be prepared to go outdoors since she is expecting me to bring food.
So i'll ask for a glass of water and once I'm in I'm going to escalate...to be fair, I'm pretty good at that when I'm with a girl and I know she likes me ( not that it's any hard when she likes you )

Why this you ask.....like someone said above...I JUST WANNA FUCK HER, I don't need to feed her..she can take care of herself

..besides , who cool would it be if you just F closed some HB and you go get launch when you still reek of S** and both of your hair is messy...We know what went down and so will others

thats just my 2 cents here.

If this makes me and idiot...please do explain
I'm not perfect, I don't want to be perfect...but I wanna learn this, learn to be a cassanova !

but for the record ...YOU GUYS HAVE ALREADY HELPED ME IMMENSELY, I started out posting this FR without any clue how to handle this situation and now I have a clear direction on what possible routes I can take regarding this specific situation.

I'm looking forward to post alot more field reports and I'm hoping i'll get the same response .


Stay tuned guys ! I will be updating this when I get back home tonight

Not sure i understand this sentence at all but i have a feeling u know what you're talking about. You're good dude. All the real world jack shit pleasantries mean just that - jack shit. Give her want she wants (if she wants it). Have fun.

Just another quick update

She drunk texted me last night that she was drinking whiskey (reason why: I told her I liek whiskey and it's much faster than drinking whine )

I didn't respond to that text tho...


Now she just texted me ' You'll have to carry me tonight hahah, I'm still hungover from yesterday

I replied: haha, told you ' whine is fine, whiskey is quicker ' ( to quote the famous hank moody )

She replied : Yeah, most def ! But I also drank tequila and whine....I look horrible :p

not gona reply on this one


Is it just me or does it feel like I will receive another text pretty soon where she's gona flake on me ?

lol

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reply to her, "no worries i'll just put a bag over your head, pussy is pussy."

just kidding; obviously do not send this to her.

If it we're me I would do a light apology for the late response (optional) tell her I'm busy with other things (in a nice way) and let her know I'll contact her when I get close. She may text again just chill...

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Guys,


I Fucked her.

Well earned. Congratulations.

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