Some of you already know what kind of situation I'm I due to my other posts.

Eventually I came to the conclusion imo that trust is one of the most important things once you get into relationship with someone.

You can't fake it and can't... game it.

I know best way to build trust is when you experience something together with the other person.

However OK we live in a same city and nothing so special happens around here so we can build trust.
We hang out but no danger happened so far so I can protect her or nothing bad happened so I can show her that I'm her side. I mean no extreme situation occurred so I can step for her and make it clear that I'm the man.
I know if something like that happens and I do my man job she will instantly trust me.

What is your opinion or experience in that case to be best ways to build trust with woman?

And second question is how can check how much she trusts me so far ?

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Why are you concerned with this?

Worry about whether you trust her, not the other way around.

Seriously...

You can't MAKE someone trust you. It takes time, and it takes honesty (or at least perceived honesty), and it takes treating her decently, consistently -- you're in a relationship.

I'd also suggest she already trusts you if she's your girlfriend.

Get it out of your head that you need to earn her trust. If you're terribly worried about it, just amek sure you don't do anything to break her trust. If you have then apologize for it like a man, and move on and try not to do it again.

Other than that, get this shit out of your head. You're in a relationship, supposedly, because you like each other and because you're attracted to each other. Be more worried about having fun with her and making moments. If she's enjoying you and enjoying the fun things y'all do together, she's not going to be all worked up on this trust BS.

She is my gf... well thats relative. I know her for 8 years and we hooked together just recently. We weren't together for 8 years.

Idk maybe internally I want to have serious relationship, since I've never been into such. Thats why I'm looking whats the source for it. But I'd agree with you. I can't FORCE it happening. So just chill...

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Its not that I worry obsessively about it. It just crosses my mind and I share it.

good point.

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It seems like the theme of your posts are always about changing her. You have two choices. Either accept her for who she is and enjoy her company or find someone that more fits what you want.

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You do seem to have a HUGE number of concerns with this girl. To the point where you're posting about every single one of them and asking how to deal with them.

Are you even having fun in this relationship?

They're supposed to be fun.

hah yea actually I have do fun with her. (except when stuff like canceling sex mid way happens).

Why I post every single situation? OK here is the truth: I like writing a diary and instead of doing it alone I just make more social. For most of the questions I write I have a decision in mind, but its always better to have multiple points of view.

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Wait wait wait... This girl isn't even your gf... And from the way things sound its not even close to that phase yet. My guess even is she has another dude. Don't go stressing this stuff so early. You haven't even slept together