I would like some help with this girl to whom i think got things wrong. I texted her something such as " I am gonna tell you this because i need to get this out of my chest... and i would iike you to be sincere... do you prefere X or X " its something i found on internet (i dont remember where) however , the message didn't send all the text and i think that she thought that i was gonna say that i love her , etc. That day she was texting me a lot of times because of that and when i didn't answer she said what did you want to say and after some time she texted " are you gonna answer or not" so i texted her back that i was gonna call her tomorrow and the next day i called her TOTALLY nervous and i told her that i was just trolling her and that i was going to show her the text then i asked her how was everything to make some conversation and she just said haha ok bye , now, monday, we both were at the same place she asked me twice for me to show her the text that was not sended so i showed it to her and she said "ohh i thought you were gonna ask me about the differences between A and B " and i said " Yeah , sure" this day she asked MY friend that is REALLY BETA to go with her to take the bus.
We have a lot in common we even did a competition to hold gazes and stuff we both laugh when we talk to each other but i dont know if i should ask her out because she also said out of nowhere that i was young ( shes one year older than me only ) What should i do now ? ( Btw sorry for the long text)

Her telling you you’re too young is a test dude.... Come on as a pick up student you should know that that’s something pick up artists say to girls all the time as a push-pull mechanism. She’s probably just playing hard to get. You just need to make sure you’re not phased by it.

You think it’s adorable that she’s playing hard to get, so you just laugh it off and continue being the high status baddass you know you are.

How will she be able to stay away then?

She won’t.

Boom

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You are being pretty vague about your situation. If you want something, just ask for it. It's as simple as that. If you'd like to go on a date, ask her on a date. If you want to know if she's interested in you, ask her "Are you interested in me?" If you just want her to know that you like her, tell her you like her.

Seriously. You really aren't going to change minds. You should be cool with that.


The "You're young," comment is is an indicator of disinterest, that can be treated as a shit test. She is disqualifying you, and at the same time seeing if you give a shit if you're too young for her.

If you want to know why girls do things, just ask them. Ask her what was up with the "young" comment and if she likes you. Nut up and go for it.

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Yeah , i failed on that shit test i acted like i cared , the first time i asked a girl out i was really into her and she treated me like shit ( used me for money , time , attention and then told me that she like me as a friend) i guess thats why i am starting to be a beta again cuz of my fear of rejection everytime i want to ask her out i just freeze out . Today i will take " a leap of faith" so i can be sure wheter she likes me or not and if she says "no" it will be better to know now, to not have oneitis. Thanks for the answers, i will tell you what happened.

I called her to ask her out because last time we couldn't talk alone , i decided to do this because she started kino with me saying my name after each sentence. I called her on the phone and she told me " what do you want" (giggling) " are you gonna ask me something stupid again"? and i told her " chill whats wrong" blah blah blah then she said ok tell me what did you want to tell me i am curious so i told her that since she was curious i wasn't gonna tell her anything and good bye because she hanged out on me like this last time so i did the same however i think she got mad cuz i called her and she didn't answer the phone ( i went to a noisy place to make the call to make her think that i was with someone else etc) I think she is playing hard to get should i tell her on monday that i was gonna ask her out but since she didn't answer i asked out somebody else?

You're too young?

I'd have said, "Pshh. That's perfect then cause you're a cradle robber (look her in her eyes) and I like cougars," raised my eyebrow, slowly smirked at her (at which point she would've laughed and IOI'd), looked away slowly, and changed the thread to something upbeat and positive.

Lol yeah , as i was gonna ask her out she asked me why did i call her the other day twice and i told her that i didnt call her twice just once and she said "oh really ok then i am gonna block you from my phone " so i laughed and said "go on" ( she said this infront of everybody like seriusly, wtf?)

I've had some women that were really insecure and did things like you mentioned. Even some hot ones act like this. Some just can't a joke properly and over react. I almost never got back in the previous fun frame. The hard truth is with certain women, especiallyhot young ones, being vague and not tell her something straight will get you nowhere.