So... there is this girl in my class. She is definitely seem to be wanting to find a new guy. We talk somewhat at school, usually in a group setting. She always seems to be flirting with me and this one of my buddies noticed the same thing. I know that she is looking for someone so I texted her anonymously saying I'm so and so and heard that she is looking for some body to cuddle with. Well, she figured out it was me. She laughed but never gave me a respond. So I said i take that as a yes. All she said was goodnight and see you tomorrow. What should I do next?

That's a pretty creepy way to do it, dude.

I can see why she'd be a little put off.

What do you do now? You message her saying you've been giving it a lot of thought, and cuddling with someone you barely know seems very forward ---- You'd like to start with a drink (or a coffee, I don't know how old you are). Ask when she's free.

Her reaction will depend on how weirded out she was from your initial anonymous thing.

She knew it's just a joke and found it funny. And I don't want to date her. How should I proceed?

Ummm...what do you want to do with her? Can't help you if you don't have a goal.

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Getting her to be my friend with benefits.

You seduce her like you would any other woman. Just don't make promises of a future of being boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't lie to her and say you have feelings that you don't really have. Once you have sex with her, don't change how you treat her. If she ever mentions anything about a relationship after sex, you just be honest and say that you like what the two of you have right now and you want to continue having sex and being friends.

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Never start out an interaction over the phone, always in person. Otherwise she will get a really creepy vibe from you (which she probably did), and that is very hard to overcome. Just chalk this one up as a learning experience, and please for the love of god don’t do something like that again. You’re better than that bro and you know it.

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