So I work for a marketing business whole going to school and often times we are selling Fortune 500 company products in walmarts. So I basically talk to as many ppl as possible everyday so it has helped me get tough skin with rejection and hard nos. but I am looking for a good key line to say to help me spark a convo with the occasional hot girls that walk by? I often chicken out at the last sec talk myself out of it and regret it later on. So maybe a good line to start for me would work best then I can open up more and gain more confidence. So any ideas?

Nut the fuck up.

A TRUE cold approach is JUST THIS.

You aren't always going to be offered the convenient excuse to chat someone up. It's great to have but it is just a tool. It is just an accessory to the outfit of pickup. It is not a pair of pants. If you see someone who sparks your INITIAL interest, just NTFU.

Go direct.

You have nothing to say? Fine. That's your opener. NTFU and go in. "Hi I'm Lothario. Ya, that's it. I got nothin'. I just wanted to say Hi." BAM SUCCESS. I nutted up and said something. Whatever the result is, I am going to feel good about it because I didn't PUSSY THE FUCK OUT. I didn't walk out to the parking lot wishing I said ANYTHING to the girl.

Cold approach is making a choice. It's going in cold even when you THINK you have nothing.

NUT THE FUCK UP...or PUSSY THE FUCK OUT.

That's it. That's all there really is. Everything else is either an excuse, a thing you make up in your head to make you feel better about NOT PUTTING THE WORK IN so you can sleep better at night, or it's some kind of tool or technology from your experience that you brought into this next scenario.

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If you can’t figure a way to muster up the confidence to actually approach a hot girl, try this exercise.

When you first get in to work, try talking to the first person that walks by. I don’t care is she’s fat, if she’s boring, if the conversation is awkward, or if she’s actually a dude. Just talk to them for 5 minutes or so to get your creative juices flowing. This will also spike confidence and get you “in the zone” so you will naturally be on when you approach the cute girl that walks by. Do this a couple times at the beginning of your shift before you go and approach any stupid hot women. Make sure that once you get the person your talking to investing in the conversation, that you lean back and show some relaxed, slightly uninterested body language. This way not only will you be on for the good looking women, but others will see your conversation going on and see the person your talking to investing much more than you are (or so it looks like). This is called preselection and is VERY powerful.

You might even get some cute girls approaching you if you do this right.

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