This might help you dude, it works for me.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrZdznwERhU

I throw house parties and invite girls I'm friends with and ofcourse they bring their own friends with them so I meet a lot of women without going out on the street approaching.

Good luck!

There are ways to make it less desperate.

1) framing it like your the prize
- it isn't easy and is a skill. Focus on your state, qualifying and role reversal.

2) precise indirect
- go indirect and never communicate intent until after she has shown interest and you have qualified her.

3) commanding direct
- you let her know u want her but only because it's a desire and not a need. It's like wanting a coke or orange juice. Does it make you desperate ? Not at all. Men want women, period. Take what you want type mindset.

4) make use of social proof & proximity
- if you're well social proofed, girls will line up to meet you. But they won't line up in a queue, they will get really close to you. So make use of that and just indirect open.

5) get a friend to introduce you

Other than that, no there really isn't much you can do to not approach whiles still approaching. This is a pick up forum. The art of the cold approach. Men are generally going to have to take the lead almost always. Once in a while a woman will approach first, but you'll never get the volume a man who approaches first will get in terms of number of interactions w women.

I think mostly what you want to know is how to approach and not come off as needy. That's just practice and updating your knowledge base. Having a strong state, framing, body language, skills etc ...

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Subcommunicate your intent with a girl when approaching her; don't approach in a neutral or friends vibe or it will destroy any chances of a successful interaction.

Yes there are some however the way I did it required a great deal of work and confidence as well as iron will and nerves.

Quiet confidence and disinterest.

1. Care a great deal about your appearance dress nice shave lose the gut.

2. Subtly stand out. Wear a color that attracts attention like a bright blue polo.

3. Show confidence. Always look as if you know what is going to happen never show surprise or indecision on what to do next. Always have a grin on your face as if you enjoy ever moment of life.

4. Show disinterest. For instance if you and 3 friends are playing pool be sitting back relaxin and when they ask you if you want to play casually decline and say something like I will get winner. You are not interested you are completely comfortable where you are at the moment but your not a stiff as you will play next. People gather for a speech story or demonstration be in interested don't move an inch you don't care about what's going on or the commotion you have more important things to worry about.

5. Every word you say needs to have a reason no dumb statements no filler.

6. Flirt across the room without moving: these steps will probably get you looks. If you catch a girls eye look dead at her smile, nod, wink, or tilt head but nothing more sit don't move or show any body language that show uncomfort or change in mood and go right back to what you were doing before as if you are not intrested. Most likely she will be thinking "what am I not attractive what did I do wrong" if it is an atractive girl she will be flabbergasted. Girls love the chase she will probably try and get your attention eventually play the same cool calm collected act you did before she will chase you more. Bump into her on the way to get a drink or to the bathroom and acknowledge her this will probably initiate flirting then seduction. If she doesn't go after you after the first encounter it is likely someone else was looking at you and you act disinterested after the first act and think this guy must be a tough catch. Your perceived value goes up and you will be chased. You are the elusive catch and girls will try to catch you

This takes time and practice before you can pull it off and this is not going to work all the time there are too many variable but stick with it and it eventually will.

Times it worked for me were. 1. In college when I was getting tutored for a class by a hot girl I acted like I wasn't interested and hardly acknowledged her except for what she was tutoring me on she had jeans and a T-shirt on while I was dressed relatively nice. Our next meeting she came in wearing nice clothes and makeup. I said " you look nice got something going on today?" She replayed "no just felt like dressing up today" and smiled. We became friends however there wasn't a romantic connection. 2. In college I was playing pool with a friend in the common area I was flamboyant enough to atract attention without trying or really aware I was. Caught eyes with a girl smiled and nodded as she walked out of the building. I turned to shoot again an atactive girl walked slowly in front of me between the table and I while she was smiling.

This is hard to do man and not all personalities can pull it off. If you are an extravert you probably would be better trying something else.