Ok well I haven't been able to go out this week, so I have been talking to this girl online. Its strictly online, she is married, but for online the first few times it was a fun interaction, she was open and commited to the conversation. She has a really sexy ass, and sometimes on her wall she post provocative stuff like ''Squat. Because no one makes songs about girls with a flat ass'' and also posted this Nikki Minaj picture where she is in a pink thong.
Well I told her about how I fantasized about her squatting on me naked, and asked her if she has a shaved vagina like I imagined. She didn't react too well to that, and was very vague from there.
But now we seem to be interacting well again, sometimes she tells me how she prefers my beard and hair and says that I would look good in tattoos, that I would enjoy her city and so I see it as some interest. She was speaking to me all night last night because her husband wasn't there. Sometimes when I have an unstifled energy, she has a stifled energy and it brings my energy to her level which isn't good and we end up going into small talk and auto pilot. How can I keep the energy of our interactions at a high level?
When I have sexual thoughts about her, im just direct and tell her. If she responds negatively, im just like, ''ok im going to the shopping mall now to kiss some girls. Im meeting one of the girls that I met yesterday.''
How can I take the right actions to attract what it is that I want from her, which is- I want some revealing pictures of her and I want her to open up to me sexually, and embrace these sexual thoughts that I have of her when I tell her about them. I want to absolutely get this girl out of her comfort zone, to talk about things that are out of character and do things and talk about things that she wouldn't normally do, like sending me nude or revealing pictures. I have been able to do it to women in the past, but all women are different. And I see this girl as a conquest and a challenge.
Although there is no physical interaction, I like the thought that im going to seduce her brain and make her comply which makes it interesting for me.
Anyway, I would like an outside perspective and advice.