Start by withdrawing all physical contact unless she initiates it. You can hug her and shit but only when she moves in for a hug first. She has to be first every single time for two months, make that a goal.

Stop fighting with her. Would you fight with a child? No, you'd laugh and not take it that seriously. Treat her that way. Just leave the room laughing if she tries to fight you. She isn't your equal at this point if she doesn't respect you.

Stop talking about emotional serious shit with her. At this point she probably knows all of your fears and worries. You have to cut that out and become vague and independent to regain her attraction and respect.

Don't buy her another god damn thing until Valentine's day. No gifts. No flowers. Nothing.

Stop spending 5-6 days a week with her and cut it to 2-3. When she brings it up say you're just busy these days. She's used to you and knows you'll always be around. That gets boring to women quick.
not safe enough for my taste. unless you're around her 24/7 you have no idea what she's up to.

start hitting on other women in front of her, flirt with them. you need to make her jealous and get her competing to regain your attraction.

don't tell her she's pretty. she's used to you wanting her sexually. and don't even ask for sex anymore. if she tries to make a sexual advance on you, and this takes work bro, but calmly and cooly reject her. it will drive her crazy and confuse the hell out of her. which is good for you.


The main thing is you gotta withdraw affection and attention from her, but do it in a way that doesn't seem bitter. Don't act angry around her anymore whatsoever. Just treat her like she is a big joke, not to be taken seriously.