I laughing at this shit dude. In what reality does a man have to give a woman this much control or power? You guys have got to be kidding me? " This woman will be the death of you " lmao.. What is he some weak beta male that is incapable of leading his relationship or handling his own life if something doesn't work out. Give the guy more credit.. jesus.

She's a woman and because she is a woman she must naturally always submit to any masculine force that knows its true power. She cannot be the death of anyone but her ownself. The reason this relationship is the way it is, is because HE didn't effectively lead it to where it needed to go. His is the man, he is the leader and when you are the leader you have to take full responsibility.

I'm not saying get back with her or not; none of us know the girl and ultimately he must make the decision as to what he wants to do because he knows his situation better than all of us. Lets just give the man some credit thats all.

There are pros and cons on each end, but the true question is.. Are you capable of being an effective leader within a relationship? Whether it be with this girl or any girl. Because regardless of what happens; a man will continue to find himself in the same situations over and over until he corrects himself. It isn't necessarily the woman; she is more often than not a reflection of the leadership or lack of it in her life.

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I didn't mean "death" literally, it's a figurative turn of phrase. The OP is clearly at the mercy of this woman and because of his history with her cannot regain any form of control over the relationship. The fact that they have broken up 7 times and every time he ignored her for 2 weeks before she banged his door down shows she is bat-shit crazy. Not to mention the fact that she demands money out of the blue, even though she is receiving child maintenance and has a new boyfriend, then become aggressive when she doesn't get what she wants. She then follows it up with an insane email feigning false concern for him.

I've dated women like this. All the signs from her point towards bi-polar mental disorder. Crazy hateful bitchy one minute, then ultra nice and stroking your ego the next. Run. Run away from her as fast as you can.

I don't even know where to begin. Number one she is not a table slut by any means. 2. she is the mother of my kids and I have known her for almost 9 years. and 3. If you guys think this is toxic than you guys should see the chicks that I have been fucking lately. One worst than the other where there idea of a first date is getting shit faced and fucked in a hotel room after just meeting me.

Anyways here is the update:

Yesterday I get 3 emails from her saying that it if I was busy at 8pm and if I could help her put air in her tires because a light in her car went on.

I ignored and didn't answer. Then she writes another email saying to please check my SPAM that she has messaged me(she unblocked me after 5 months being blocked)

when I checked her message she had a picture of her by her self (before it was her and her boyfriend)

again she messaged me if I can help her put air in her tires.

I responded to her that no! I am busy and I cant help her with that.

She responded " that's fine I will ask my boyfriend to help me then"

I answered "ok" and and she didnt respond back.

You're still making the mistake of comparing one type of bad woman with another.

Bitches have kids all the time. It doesn't mean they're good people. So the fact that she is the mother of your kids doesn't automatically make her a good person, nor does it mean she isn't a greedy vengeful money-grabbing bitch.

You have an alcohol problem. You can't approach until you're wasted. That's why you can't attract and keep the right kind of woman.

You're a sucker for punishment.

I only drink when I go to the clubs and I don't get wasted because then my dick wont get up. I don't drink during the day or week days.

DO yourself a favor and follow this rule " If you have to say 'ok' " you do not say anything. Don't be the one to close the conversation. "ok" doesn't mean shit.. So it doesn't even need to be said. Leave her hanging wondering if you'll ever respond, its not like saying "ok" means anything. NEVER say "OK" no matter what.

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So what's stopping you from meeting women on weekdays during the day? Whether you get wasted or not is irrelevant. If you can't approach without a drink, it's a problem.

Who says I don't approach woman during the day? I fucked 2 chicks last month that were both approached during the day. Adriana: approached her in McDonald and Miranda is a cashier at winn dixie.

Just because I like closing easy table sluts doesn't mean I only fuck chicks I pick up at clubs.

Also to be honest those 2 chicks don't even make half of a HB8 table slut that i am used to picking up at clubs.
plus usually once you fuck a club girl I usually never hear from them again. with these day girls you need to play boyfriend and girlfriend before you can even fuck them.

with the club girls after 4 hours I am usually sticking my dick in them.

You are right. Its better not to say anything than to say OK. on a side note I didn't end that conversation. Its just that she started ranting stuff that is not even worth mentioning here.

shit about how I don't care that my kids ride in a car with a flat tire, bla bla bla.

That's the stuff that's actually worth mentioning. She's trying to make you comply with her wishes. First she started off by asking for money. Then she moved to trying to get you to do favors. Then she says she'll get another man to do what she wants so that you'll be jealous. Now she's trying to guilt you into doing what she wants by using your children as leverage. She's playing so many head games with you and if you keep letting her play, she's eventually going to win...especially since you say you want her back.

I'd rather see you run around with the table sluts than being manipulated.

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+1 This.

I think this is purely a case of loneliness. I went through that period when I divorced my wife. My first few relationships after the divorce were car crashes, because I was trying to fill the void which is left when you are so used to living with someone. It took me 9 months to fully get that loneliness out of my system (even though I filed for divorce), Ever since then I can't understand how I coped with living with her for so long.

If you were living with a quality woman who looked after your sexual and emotional needs, cooked / cleaned for you etc., you wouldn't be living in the past, wishing your abusive ex-wife would come and bang down your door to scream shit at you.

You have shitty options so you want to get back your ex with a less shitty option. A 10 who fucks you and never talks to you again is a shitty option. A 5 who wants to be your gf is a shitty option. You gotta change things up and find better options. You're all over the place. If your ex never existed what kinda girl/relationship would you want. Then take the steps to get that. And Hunter is right, this girl will be the death of you. I don't know what it is with guys sometimes that nothing a girl does turns them off. Asking for money... Using your kids... Being passive aggressive... Manipulative. Tbh I couldn't get hard for someone like that. She will ruin you because you don't see it.

You guys are talking like if this is the first chick I ever fucked.


This is the girl that doss it for me. I don't know why and its real hard to explain. I know how the game works and I know what is right and what is wrong.

Most of the chicks I ever fucked I'd say 80% I fucked before I even met her and that was 9 years ago. I have fucked over 200 women. I started fucking at a real young age and I know what I like and what makes me happy. Out of all those women this is the one I chose to have children with and spend 9 years of my life.


I can't just erase all those years I have invested. In the real world everyone thinks I moved on and that I am happy. But in reality no one knows the desire I have to recuperate my family.

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Now that I discovered what being Alfa is all about of course I am willing to be a leader. I realized from reading this forum that I did everything wrong for so many years and the only reason I fucked so many women was because I am very persistent but I lost many women because of that.

I just want to learn from the experience of other pua the social dynamics involved to successfully provoke certain emotions on women in general.

For example everyone knows that being needy will cause certain emotions on her to break up with you.

Just like everyone knows that becoming less available will cause certain emotions on woman to want you more.

That is why I am basically here to learn. What I do with that knowledge or weather I use it wisely to my advantage is a matter of personal preference.