Update: someone please dicifer this email that she sent me today.


She: Brian, be carfull. Sometimes I get worried. Please try to avoid it.

Me: Avoid what? What are you talking about?

She: Never mind. I'm weird like you said.


I didn't even reply to her last message nor am I planing to.

DON'T

She's making an attempt to get back with you. You just have to handle it right and she's yours.

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Lol. She's not trying to got back with him. Obviously she's trying to manipulate him to feel sorry for her by acting like she worries about him. Where are you guys seeing a girl breaking up with him, not contacting him for months and then hitting him up solely for money = he has a chance to get this girl back? If the girl had hit him up to meet up money aside I could see what you mean. But this girl has been solely focused on meeting for the money. She's gonna act concerned, meet, get the money and go back to no contact. Or if she doesn't get it she's gonna be mad and go back to no contact after some angry words.

This is the most accurate assessment. Listen and listen very hard. I've been involved with a few girls like this before I got into PUA. I'm smarter now processing advice from the likes of Neo and other guys around here.

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I Suppose this is very true ! totally missed this point. If she had a valid reason for requesting extra money for example the kids needed shoes for school or whatever fair enough. BUT she hasnt even given you a reason for it. FUCK THAT SHIT dnt talk to her just talk to see the kids.

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I agree with Neo whole heartily, but what almost must be understood is that women have a hard time differentiating between their feelings. If she's making herself available emotionally so that she can get money, he can use the situation properly to redirect that energy into one that would suit whatever purpose he would like. She's playing with fire, so she can be burned. All i'm saying. You can see it from whatever perspective you like.

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Guys thank you so much for responding. Even thow I want to get back with her and my kids I want to take it one step at a time and do it the right way. Also at the moment if she wants to get back with me or not is irrelevant because she is the type of person that changes her mind every fucking day for no reason at all. She doesn't even know what the hell she wants. I been with her for almost 9 years and have 2 kids together. In those 9 years together I must have broken up with her and gotten back maybe around 7 times. (and that is no joke) obviously this is the longest we have been broken up and the first time that I am aware of the there is another person involved. Back in the day if I wanted to get back with her all I had to do was ignore her for 2 weeks and she would literally straight up go and bang my fucking door down. That stratigy does not work now because I can't go NC with her because of the kids so one way or another my precence is ever present and she has no way to to start to miss me. Plus she was a boyfriend which makes the situation even worse.


She realy doesn't need the money. She is just asking because its another one of her shit test because she knows how important money means to me.

My question is guys what do you think will happend if I don't respond to her email vs if I just respond a simple ok.

If it was me send an email in that nature and the recipient does not respond I will literally go insane wondering why she has not responded.

If they respond with a simple " ok " it will still have an effect but not as profound as if they totally ignore me.

If want her to start wondering what's up with me and why I am not answering like usual.

I just want to make sure that I am going in the right direction in order to succecly recuperate my family.

Even though I love fucking new chicks and going out every weekend it doesn't fill my void as being with her and my kids.

I wrote and article called " She Will Follow So Long As You Lead "..


Check it here http://eddiefews.com/will-follow-your-lead/

I believe it holds the answer you're looking for.


And last but not least.. DO NOT RESPOND.

Please bro. She's going to keep on coming. Ignore. Make her open up and express the emotion thats really behind all of this.

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Wth would you want to get back into a relationship like that? On and off.. Obviously you two don't work. Combined with her immaturity.. Dude you have kids. You gonna drag them into that? Mom and dad get back every year, a new guys is fucking mom for a few months then they get back together! Look, you have kids now. The high school shit is over now. If you care about your kids, see them support them, move on from your ex and show them stability, not this craziness. Show your ex youre a man and get into a healthy relationship with a stable girl. And hope your ex grows up and find someone that she wants to be with and can be stable with. If you and her together doesn't work leave it alone or your kids will be the ones growing up in unpleasantness

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Excellent advice right here.

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I don't know about you but just the thought of my kids growing up saying daddy to another man is enough for me to try and work shit out. I grew up in a broken family and don't want my kids to go thru the same bullshit I went thru. And about my ex fucking another guy!!! Who gives a fuck. She is not with me. Plus I fucked over 200 women.

It just gets to a point that just makes you feel empty inside. Same fucking routine every week. Go to the club, pop bottles, get fucked up, and take a chick to the hotel room just to have room service kick you out at 12 in the morning.

My ex could give 3 shits if I popped a bottle or not when I met her. That's why I was attracted to her so much when we met. She doesn't drink or do drugs like 90% of the table sluts that I bang every week.

He's talking about what your kids are going through. Watching daddy come in and out of a relationship with their mother is going to affect them negatively. Especially if there is other guys between that time. You guys have broken up multiple times. If you get back with her, why would that dynamic change? It's what you guys do. As long as you are in their lives, your kids will never call another man daddy.

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Far better for your kids to grow up with a stable situation of regular access to their real dad, than confuse them with a constant cycle of break-up and make-up with their mother.

You need to think about your own sanity. This woman will be the death of you. Your kids won't be kids forever. They will grow up and go to college. Then you'll be stuck with this toxic witch for the rest of your life, getting cuckolded left, right and centre. You are a masochist and you obviously love all the drama this woman provides.

Instead of popping bottles for gold-digging prostitutes, you should work on your inner game and stop meeting women in the VIP. There are quality women out there who don't cost a penny to seduce and are far more genuine than the sluts you've been fucking.

If you're tired of table sluts, stop going after table sluts.

Do some day game dude. Meet some quality girls. Swing by a coffee shop and hit on a girl thats reading an interesting book or something.