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I don't think you did anything wrong to the point where this is a real issue. The thing I saw was music is a personal thing to her and you were creating a good bond with her. Then you went to the mundane of day to day life. Go back to music again and it should be solid.

But I wouldn't worry about calling a woman difficult if there's an attraction established. You can actually use it to command compliance. The fact that it was used with muppet pictures may have taken away a little bit of it's effect though.

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She seems to like you, but I'm honestly not seeing any sexual tension even in the first exchange. I also don't see where you fucked things up. I mean no, you didn't slide back into a deep conversation, but that's not always a given.

When you reengage her, she's just being colder right from the start. Yes, you grasp at straws a bit to try and turn things around, but she was being aloof to start. She started the disengagement. You tried(and failed) to turn it around. Was it what I would call a good attempt? No. But the fact that you would need to engage in damage control already tells you where this is. That rarely works even when executed perfectly.
I've seen you post a lot of good stuff. But this is an example of getting WAY too deep inside your head. When a chick is actually into me, I have done some pretty dumb shit, and still slept with her. On the other hand, when she's not that into me, I've done almost everything perfectly and had her walk away. This little micro stuff can add up, but you really don't blow strong prospects with stuff like this.

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Interesting you see it that way. I wonder what the reason could be.
You swine. Muppet pictures are the ultimate tool in any seducer's arsenal.

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Well that was some read !

You had her right where you wanted her the perfect reply to her saying she finds singing personal would have been -

Well why dont we grab a drink sometime and haves some fun enjoy ourselves before i get into your personal side.

Your main problem was you stuck to much down the music line she got bored talking about music.
You could salvage this though.

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The line you suggested is good, a more confident man might have used it

Interested by the suggestion she got bored of talking about music, that's the entire basis of our relationship btw if I didn't make that clear. A friend of mine was playing a gig where I supported him, and she was also due to with me possibly playing guitar. However she flaked on the gig and my mate wasn't very happy with her. Don't know her side as have only been chatting to her a few times on FB. Anyway playing with her could be fun and help me develop on the creative side which is also important. So not that bothered about the pull so much as the fact I'm very frustrated that I had a bit of social value going and then DLV'd the fuck out of myself. More concerned with how this sort of thing might happen in the future (the fact I'm primarily looking to bond creatively with this girl and pull would be a back burner option - if I can get that needy in this situation what will happen when a girl I really fancy and want to fuck comes along? Although I deal with those situations easy when there's clear reciprocation so that might help).

How would you suggest salvaging this (and bear in mind just being a cool guy who plays music with this girl (she's got a great voice) could open doors in itself)?

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if you're trying to create a bond with her and maybe form a relationship then you're goin in the perfect directions bro she likes you lol

BUT if you're looking basically to just lay then you have noooooo sexual tension, she's starting to see u as a friend more as a guy she wants to fuck, girls get bored really easy, you have to be bold, sexy, confident, funny, and interesting...u have the funny and interesting part down but you have to ease into the bold and sexy part...don't just randomly bring up sex, talk about how she looks amazing or compliment something that is physical (not her breast yet man unless you're a pro lol)

also try to see her in person more often

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+1

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It's a fucking text exchange, stop analyzing it so much. There's an element of randomness to pickup that so many people ignore for the sake of their egos.

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