Ok well recently I have causally got back in contact with a girl that I met about four years ago. I met her when she was separated from her husband, but now shes back with him but I didn't get to hit it, and I held back all these pent up sexual feelings towards her.
But now, seeing as its casual and I don't much care what she thinks or how it makes me look, I sent her messages whatever I felt just basically to amuse myself. Today I sent her a text ''you have a lovely, beautiful ass, I cant stop thinking about it.'' ten minutes later I sent back another message ''What are you thinking. Im curious'' then I sent another message ''what colour underwear are you wearing today?''
Later on she replied with ''stop sending me messages about my ass. My husband will not like it.''
I wanted to send something back witty to keep the conversation going but I couldn't really think back how to reply. I was thinking of writing ''you mean this isn't your husband'' but then that would have made me look gayer than anything. Just curious, how would people here have replied to her message.

Unless she's giving you some playful banter or anything to work with (that you haven't written here), she sure doesn't sound into it to me.

She's telling you to back off.

Do you really think she's flirting with you? Has she sent you anything that even resembles flirting?

Stop messaging this girl, go out and flirt with others. If you message her anything, and I mean anything, after she tells you that her husband won't like what you are telling her, you come off as a desperate loser.

So your saying I had nothing to work with to be witty and that the rest of the people here would have reacted the same way? Or would you have had a witty comeback? I know what she meant, but my point of this thread is that im just curious how to answer for future reference, because often lots of girls use the boyfriend or husband card to prevent any connection. And just because she is married it doesent really mean anything when it comes to seduction. I don't want her because although she is sexy five ways from sunday, she has about as much personality as a stick, which somewhat was my purpose was to see if these messages show anything more about her personality. She really has just one dimensional personality, Marriage, Kids, Work, Repeat. Leaves her somewhat open for something different for her if your know what I mean.

Yes, I'm saying I think you are misreading the situation - based on what you've written here. Just cause you've reconnected with her doesn't mean she's interested in anything.

You're sending messages to her which aren't wanted.

What would I have replied? I wouldn't have. I would stop replying... and probably wouldn't have sent those messages.