So I've been chatting with a HB9 on FB for the last two months with a one week period when I didn't reply to her messages. We mutually engage in funny topics and talk from 1 to 3-4 hours! Obviously I tried plenty of times to suggest meeting up, but she either ignored it or commented about it and then changed the subject! Also asked to move onto whatsup and came up with some lame excuses about her phone etc. The last couple of days began to snow and made up scenarios about us going outside and do stuff, but her reaction was negative about the freeze! But agreed over making some tea for me. I suggested going to a restaurant at a certain time to try some tea flavours but also declined with some stupid line. I always mentained some funny/casual mood, but at the end of the night I got, FOR THE FIRST TIME, IMO, AFC-ish. The following contains the highlight of our convo.
Me: My keyboard is wearing off from talking to you
HB9: You're not funny anymore
Me: We need to come up with a quick solution or we won't be able to speak again
HB9: What solution?
Me: I've suggesteed whatsup before, but if you have someting better
HB9: I don't...If you leave, I promise I won't cry
Me: I've never talked before to anyone online without any outcome
HB9: What outcome??
Me: Our long discussions...where do they aim?
HB9: Must they lead anywhere?
(No text for half an hour)HB9: I feel like right now they're leading me to the nuthouse
Me: I've never been asked before in my life by a woman if our interaction must lead to a certain end
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HB9: Where do you wanna go?
(No text for 45minutes)Me: Let's leave this here...maybe some day we'll be on the same path...
HB9: OK...Good night...sleep tight
Me: Night
So basically I've turned from the funny guy which she told me I was to the weirdo that asks her imbecile questions! Why does she think I;m talking to her? Just to entertain her?! We've talked about sex and stuff, so I don't think I'm being friendzoned. There have been times when she told me how great I am and blabla, but never gave out her #. Sends me love songs and clips on youtube and asks me if I consider those women attractive. Another thing is that she's highly creative and our interaction never gets boring. That's what pisses me off...
I dunno if I fucked up or not, but I'm not convinced she's single, although there's no picture of her in the company of another man that would trigger some sort of assurance. That's the only thing that comes to my mind right now. It would be the only answer to her rejection on plenty of occasions. What's worse is that she never says NO, but slightly moves the convo to some other topic.
Are there any of you guys that spoke for more than 3 months to a woman online before meeting up?!
And what was the process? Me personally, I always carried out naturally the situation towards the point of date in 5-20 days.
Ofcourse I could say I'm interested into her and wanna "get to know her better", but for fucks sake thats like 16yo game. If she doesn't know I;m interested by now, she's either stupid or has someone else. But why send kisses, hugs and "I miss you"?! Am I just an online buddy for her?! Never been in a situation like this before... As a background on her, she's 25, been a model for 3 years and has a master in journalism. Dunno if that's relevant or not.
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