Shit test "I'm not trying to impress you"



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Dark Xavier
PostPosted: Mon Nov 03, 2014 2:47 pm 
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How to respond to this? Been getting a lot of shit tests from this one girl lately and I'm stumped on this one. We've been fucking for a while and she's been saying stuff like "at the beginning I had to impress you but I don't have to anymore".
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How to respond to this? Been getting a lot of shit tests from this one girl lately and I'm stumped on this one. We've been fucking for a while and she's been saying stuff like "at the beginning I had to impress you but I don't have to anymore".
That's probably her way of saying she's comfortable around you.

Unless she's saying it to be rude I'd just ignore it.
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Dark Xavier
PostPosted: Mon Nov 03, 2014 3:07 pm 
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Unless she's saying it to be rude I'd just ignore it.
Perhaps I'm just addicted to frame control, but this has been really bugging me. Surely if she feels that she doesn't have to impress me this means her attraction is going down. Okay it also means she's comfortable with me, but it feels like if she's not trying to impress that the frame is moving away from me being the prize. Do you reckon I'm reading too deep into this?
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CharlesFinley
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You handle it the same way you handle any shit test (this isn't really a shit test either)...

Ignore it. Change topic.
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Dark Xavier
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You handle it the same way you handle any shit test (this isn't really a shit test either)...

Ignore it. Change topic.
thanks bro cheers! one more question- today she said "I'm off okay" and I jokingly said "you have permission" like I often do. Except this time she said "well I'd go anyway"- any thoughts on this?
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CharlesFinley
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Ya, man - it's nothing. She's just trying to tell you you're not the boss of her.

Ignore.

You can pass ANY shit test by ignoring.
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Dark Xavier
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Ya, man - it's nothing. She's just trying to tell you you're not the boss of her.

Ignore.

You can pass ANY shit test by ignoring.
Don't you think sometimes that's the beta option? Like if she's flirting with another guy right in front of your face and you don't do anything about it.
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CharlesFinley
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Flirting with another guy right in front of your face is not a shit test. It's disrespectful and crossing a line, if you've set that boundary with her.

Learn to identify what is really a shit test (the subject of this thread is not really even a shit test)
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Tell her if she disrespects your authority again she will get a sore bum !

hahaha just kidding lol ignore it

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