Hi guys, I really need some advice.

I met a girl and went on a date. We had a couple of drinks and it went well....but I waited at the bus stop with her (tring to be a gentleman) and at the bus stop she seemed not that into me!

I texted her around 45 minutes later saying:
“Hey, did you get home ok?”

She replied:
“Yes I did. Thank you for a lovely evening xxx”

I did not reply to her after....but am thinking of messaging her tomorrow?

Is this her polite way of saying thanks but I don't want to see you again? Or is there a chance I can see her again? Should I message her tomorrow? What should I message her tomorrow?

Please let me know guys. Your advice will be much appreciated!

Wow, wait...what? i can't really understand where you pulled that out from, but ok...i don't know why would "thank you for a lovely evening" mean she doesn't want to see you again what was she supposed to say, thank you for a boring evening?
If you ask me...no, don't message her right away. wait a couple of days, the day after tomorrow is alright. Just don't make her feel as you are rushing things.
About what to message...basically anything, doesn't matter really

If you like her, ask her out again.

This isn't rocket science.

Exactly...

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Thanks for the reply. Sorry I have taken so long! (I forgot my login details - so this is the first time logging back in since writing this!)

Just to let you guys know she was keen after and we went on 4 more dates. I live at home with my parents (sad I know - but London is very expensive!) so never 'sealed the deal' but we made out a bit and had some fun in other places, haha! Things died down for several months however we recently messaged and have arranged a date for tomorrow. Let me know if you are interested in how it goes!

Haha...true! Just out of curiousity - how often do you guys go on dates?