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| chi31fan35 | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 1:21 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Fri Jul 18, 2014 1:07 pm Posts: 220 | | A couple seperate questions. A girl asked me if her hair looked good, and I took that as qualifying herself to me. So I responded with a compliment.
Later on she said she was going to stalk me in a joking way, so I thought that was her way of saying she liked me.
Anyways, later on I ask her if she wanted to kiss me, then she said it'd be weird and made fun of me for asking her, saying it was like a kindgartener and basically making fun of me for being nervous, too.
I don't know where I went wrong.
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 1:58 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:17 pm Posts: 3427 Location: Toronto, Canada | | That 'do you want to kiss me' move needs to be used at the right time...
Like, when you're close, and flirty and half-sexual and you can sort of tell she's thinking it anyway.
It's unclear from your post how or when you delivered this line...
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| chi31fan35 | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 2:12 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Fri Jul 18, 2014 1:07 pm Posts: 220 | | Oh, the timing was absolutely awful. I made the mistake of going in there with the mindset that "I am going to ask her tonight." And I think I subcommunicated that throughout, which wrecked things. I don't know where to go from here, I see this girl every night.
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 2:42 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:17 pm Posts: 3427 Location: Toronto, Canada | | Pretend it never happened. Seriously.
Next time you see her, escalate like normal and be physical and fun and flirty...
And don't ask about kissing her/kissing you next time. Just do it (at the right time).
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 5:56 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | It's easier to ask for forgiveness afterwards than ask for permission beforehand.
Just grab her and kiss her if she is that into you.
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