Long story short.

Been seeing a HB7 for a few weeks now. Didnt make a forward move but today got a BJ.
The thing was it came out of nowhere and was in the car (she was sceptical but continued anyway).

I actually really like her and would have preferred to have done it elsewhere but so be it.

Im gonna see her tomorrow but im in 2 minds.

Dont wanna be an AFC but I dont want her to think that im the guy that just fucks girls in his car. I dont really want this to be a one off but im looking for a relationship. I thought about saying something to her but think that'll look ultra weak (i.e. I would have rather done something in better timing more intimate).

Having never been in a relationship this is kinda new to me.

Not quite what youd expect in this forum but any tips and advice?

Thanks in advance!

Sounds like she went for it with no provoking on your part. So you're doing a lot right if that is how it went down. I'd just play it cool about the whole thing, I wouldn't make light of it, instead I'd show her by your actions how you appreciate her by taking her to a private location other than the car.

Maybe she just likes to give blowjobs. Some girls do.

I really like those girls.

If she's not acting strangely about it, you shouldn't either. Does she seem uncomfortable or something?

I get what you're saying - that if you actually respect her, you don't want her thinking you're a 'fuck her in the car' type... but unless she's an idiot she'd know that no guy - anywhere - will say no to a blowjob no matter where it is.

You said she seemed skeptical. The fact that you're asking this probably means you noticed something in her behavior to make you concerned. She will never say that she feels bad/dirty about it, but you will know from her body language. So you can just let her know you value her by telling her so, by respecting her and by making sure that situation doesn't repeat itself.

If you sense she feels bad about it, then maybe she regrets it and isn't likely to repeat it. It's possible she didn't even want to do it, but fears being single. Some girls aren't strong enough to face the possibility of being left. If she was skeptical then that's a huge red light you need to pay attention to.

First off, thanks for all the replies and advice

In answer to one of the replies however, she seemed skeptical but mainly as it was so public. I just felt as though I didn't make her as comfortable as I should of.

Speaking to her today she didn't seem as though she regretted it and we spent a fair bit of time together. I didn't get any bad vibes.

Reading the responses it could literally be any of the above. She initiated, but she's also had serial long relationships. :s This clearly isnt the worst problem to have, may have been overthinking which I tend to do.

S