First post on here so bear with me...

I have been talking to this girl for about a month now.

She initiated contact after about 6 months with not talking (previously had talked a little bit)

She has been been extremely flirty from the beginning, through both texting and snap chat. She has initiated contact multiple times. I would say I initiate it 60% of the time through texting. She always initiates snapchat as I'm not really that into it.

We have hung out twice. I kissed her on the first night after dinner, the second night we were at a concert and we were touching either by holding hands or dancing for most of the night.

The issue is that it seems like she is playing games with me. She will be extremely talkative and flirty through text and acts eager to see me, and then there will be a few days where she seems distant. I don't know if she is just playing hard to get or trying to keep me on the hook.

I texted her about meeting up this week last night and she said she "thinks" she can Wednesday but was pretty short about it and stopped responding after 3 messages. (In most instances she would attempt to continue the conversation)

What is the best way to beat this type of situation? Do I keep my contact to a minimum and wait for her to come to me or do I continue as normal and see what happens? I don't want to play games but I don't want to lose her either. If I have to walk away I will, but I would like to find a way to work through whatever game she is playing and beat it

My plan at this point is to not text her until the day of the date and tell her the plan for the night and see what happens

Also I am 24 and she is 20 so she may be more likely to play games because of her age. Also she is a very attractive girl I would say a HB 9 and I imagine has multiple guys into her but I'm pretty confident she isn't seeing anyone else at the moment

She gave it a shot and it looks like you took her out on two very traditional dates. Not exciting enough for her (as seen by her off and on / lukewarm response since then) and she is keeping you on a string while she quite likely meets other guys. Painting the town is great for a girl you're already having sex with.

For the next girls, meet up with them at a place where you can kino escalate and invite them to a private location sooner than later so you can make a move.

For this girl, on the day of your next date, text her: "movie night. i got the wine, u bring the popcorn". If she rejects, her loss and she was only out with you in the past for the free food & free entertainment.

Thank you I appreciate the advice. Just to clarify one thing the concert wasn't technically a date. We found out we were both going to the same concert and met up and we hung out the whole time. She has a full time job and works at night a lot and is taking classes so it is difficult to find time to see her as I work full time as well. But I will definitely take your advice and if she bails it will be on to the next one

A guy looking for a shortcut and planning to apply said shortcut. While a lot of guys apply the thoughts of those on this forum, every time I see it it almost brings a tear to the eye. I commend you.