Hi everyone,

I’ve been an avid reader of PUA related shows, online training videos, and books for a few years now, but never really delved into the game to incorporate enough to incorporate it into my persona as a tool I could turn on and off to create relationships. I believe that this body of knowledge is extremely challenging and positively life changing. It’s not faith that makes me a believer, but actually seeing people transform themselves and their lives to be the best versions of themselves, and having fun doing so, AND giving themselves and women the chance to experience love in its many forms.

I absolutely LOVE the way you learn to communicate on “a different level” that is fun, non-needy, enticing, interesting to both men and women. Isn’t that just how cool people communicate anyway? I have to say THANK YOU to the men and women who’ve helped get this body of knowledge to where it is today, and to the countless men and women it has given the chance to simply enjoy themselves in the process of naturally occurring and necessary human interaction. Laughter, sex, getting your mind blown by getting to know people at their most core and naked version of themselves is beautiful.

I think I’m supposed to give a “score” or something of my past success with women? I’m in my mid 30’s, and I’ve been with about 22-23 women about sexually, but it’s a FAR cry from what I know is possible. Honestly, I couldn’t deconstruct what made me succeed or fail in my relationship startups with women. I had no clue which languages and behaviors were DHV and DLV. Before this, I had no clue how I ever got laid really. Short of a girl putting her breasts on my head, or sticking her hand into my pants, I didn’t know there were other more subtle signals of arousal + comfort + trust levels for sex. Yes, I basically needed a written invitation to Nclose, Kclose, and Fclose. I have lost the interest of many, many women who simply thought I wasn’t into them when they were ready for me to pull the trigger and be the man and escalate.

Learning this discipline and making it part of me would allow me to also someday teach it to friends, which I’ve sort of always done anyway with friends to help them as best I can with their relationship development problems..*yes even as an AFC and before I discovered this technology,* but also help my sons when they get older. The same way they’re going to be training legitimate martial arts, BJJ/MMA, to be able to defend themselves in a time of need *hopefully they’ll never need it, but better to have and not need then need and not have that skill set*, why not send them into the social adult world with the tools to get the high quality partners that they screen as high quality partners AND just being warm, cool, non-reactive people? My loved ones' successes feel like my successes.

So thank you everyone for simply participating in this. Believe it or not, but your collective sex drives are motivating us to ultimately bring whatever this body of knowledge is further into the future by keeping it alive, keeping it growing, and it’s changing how we think, act, and connect with each other. God I sound like a tree-hugging hippie, but I’m just speaking from the heart here. I'm looking forward to reading peoples' posts and posting questions and maybe someday legitimately helpful answers of my own.

And by the way, yes, I cut and pasted this "Introduce yourself post" from another forum I just also recently joined because frankly, it took me enough time to write it and I didn't want to go through the whole process again. I think it does a pretty good job of sharing a little bit about me. I hope that's not against any sort of rule since I'm the one who wrote it anyway.