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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 4:00 pm 
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Thanks for replying but I don't really understand what you're saying about girls mirroring your sexual state. I agree that people tend to like those who are like themselves. However, just because my dick gets hard around a girl and It reflects in my personality doesn't mean that she's always going to respond in the same way. At least not in my own experience at least.

When I'm horny for example I become intensely motivated to pursue girls ESPECIALLY in a more sexual way. My intentions are usually clear in my body language, voice tone, and word choice. This can either do one of two things.

1. The girl responds back in the same manner just like you said.
2. The girl gets a bit creeped out and looks at me like I'm some sort of freak for pursuing her.

I could DEFINITELY be wrong considering this is only from my own experience. Could you go more into explaining how girls tend to mirror our personalities? I feel like there may be some useful theory there if it's actually true.
When a girl mirrors your sexual state, you are genetically compatible. When she does not mirror your sexual state, you are not genetically compatible. Hence, you sarge the next woman until she mirrors your sexual state.

You'll need to fix your vibe so girls don't freak out around you whatever state you're in. If you have that nonchalant, laid back, aloof and fun vibe, getting sexual is a breeze.

If you're projecting a horny but nervous vibe, girls will feel creeped out.

Thanks a lot for responding. I feel like a lot of this has to do with calibrating for the individual differences per each girl. Some girls are just fine with behaving sexually while others aren't because they're afraid of being made to look like a slut.

What you say about a girl mirroring your sexual state makes sense. When she does mirror your sexual state I suppose it would be safe to assume that she has qualified you as a potential sexual partner. On the other hand, if she doesn't treat you in the same manner then I would assume this means that she has disqualified you.

I feel like some girls will shit test you first before they allow themselves to respond to your vibe.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 2:08 am 
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Could you go more into explaining how women are mirrors? I haven't ever really heard of this or thought of this concept at all.
In general women are mirrors, as in they won't mirror you 100% of the time but you may find that they do more often than not.

I go up to a girl; I'm a little nervous because it's my first approach of the day. She reflects that nervous energy back to me. She's mirroring.

I go up to a girl; I'm super smooth and relaxed and playful and flirty and touchy/feely in a normal way. She swoons & gives a bunch of IOIs. She's mirroring.

When you really think about it, this could be the same girl. She reacts differently depending on HOW the approach is made. This is how women are mirrors.
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You speak of not behaving with these girls in the same manner as you would when speaking to a girl you were in a relationship with. Should you automatically behave as if you're in a relationship with a girl when you're opening a set and trying to attract her?
I wouldn't do it per se in your environment but once you get older this is a good way to get them to mirror back comfortability with you and for them to feel a connection with you pretty quickly.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 6:55 am 
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Thanks a lot for responding. I feel like a lot of this has to do with calibrating for the individual differences per each girl. Some girls are just fine with behaving sexually while others aren't because they're afraid of being made to look like a slut.

What you say about a girl mirroring your sexual state makes sense. When she does mirror your sexual state I suppose it would be safe to assume that she has qualified you as a potential sexual partner. On the other hand, if she doesn't treat you in the same manner then I would assume this means that she has disqualified you.

I feel like some girls will shit test you first before they allow themselves to respond to your vibe.
No, it's screening so you don't waste your time.

You screen out girls who are not mirroring your sexual state. Meanwhile, you invest more time on girls who are mirroring your sexual state. So, let's say, out of 30 girls only 5 girls are mirroring your sexual state. What you do is drop the 25 girls and focus on the 5 girls that are positive mirrors of your sexual state.

Of the five girls, you will find one or two exceptional girl(s) that you really like and who also like(s) you a lot.

Again, it's not calibration. It's screening. Those two are different.

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I go up to a girl; I'm a little nervous because it's my first approach of the day. She reflects that nervous energy back to me. She's mirroring.

I go up to a girl; I'm super smooth and relaxed and playful and flirty and touchy/feely in a normal way. She swoons & gives a bunch of IOIs. She's mirroring.

When you really think about it, this could be the same girl. She reacts differently depending on HOW the approach is made. This is how women are mirrors.
To expand on this point there was a Youtube vid of a dude approaching a woman in a "nerdy/awkward/friends-type" manner and she brushed him off and spoke with him in a way that she would talk to a little boy.

The SAME DUDE approached her a little while later with a completely different look & wardrobe (she didn't know it was the same guy) using "damn-u-fine-ma" type of language and minutes later she gave him a handjob behind a tree.


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I go up to a girl; I'm a little nervous because it's my first approach of the day. She reflects that nervous energy back to me. She's mirroring.

I go up to a girl; I'm super smooth and relaxed and playful and flirty and touchy/feely in a normal way. She swoons & gives a bunch of IOIs. She's mirroring.

When you really think about it, this could be the same girl. She reacts differently depending on HOW the approach is made. This is how women are mirrors.
To expand on this point there was a Youtube vid of a dude approaching a woman in a "nerdy/awkward/friends-type" manner and she brushed him off and spoke with him in a way that she would talk to a little boy.

The SAME DUDE approached her a little while later with a completely different look & wardrobe (she didn't know it was the same guy) using "damn-u-fine-ma" type of language and minutes later she gave him a handjob behind a tree.
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I go up to a girl; I'm a little nervous because it's my first approach of the day. She reflects that nervous energy back to me. She's mirroring.

I go up to a girl; I'm super smooth and relaxed and playful and flirty and touchy/feely in a normal way. She swoons & gives a bunch of IOIs. She's mirroring.

When you really think about it, this could be the same girl. She reacts differently depending on HOW the approach is made. This is how women are mirrors.
To expand on this point there was a Youtube vid of a dude approaching a woman in a "nerdy/awkward/friends-type" manner and she brushed him off and spoke with him in a way that she would talk to a little boy.

The SAME DUDE approached her a little while later with a completely different look & wardrobe (she didn't know it was the same guy) using "damn-u-fine-ma" type of language and minutes later she gave him a handjob behind a tree.

you mean this video??? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHiQeu1GJ2s


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 4:21 pm 
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Thanks a lot guys for the great replies.

The mirroring phenomenon that you guys speak of is really quite mind-blowing. I'm going to observe social interactions at my school and actually get into set and observe it's effects. The video really hit the ball park. It's definitely something that I'm going to spend more time thinking about.


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