Hey everyone, I have not been on the forum for a while so ill introduce myself quickly. 3 years ago I was introduced to the game by a close friend. I was probably one of the "nicest guys" you can ever meet. Like seriously, too nice to an extent I was always feeling depressed from trying to make everyone around me happy at my own expense. Over the course of three years, I've laid dozens of women around the world. Many of them are what the community would call HB9s and 10s.. However, it would always end up in one night stand or 2 at most( few exceptions though including good fuckbuddies). Anyway, to cut to the chase, last month I ended up meeting a close friend of my crush from london( one of the main reasons I joined game) few years back. I took her back home that night and we ended up fucking. She went back to moscow and came back 3 days ago. I've been seeing her everyday since she came and I think I'm falling for her. Problem with her is she is so fucken rich that I don't think I can keep up with her, too self centered, hot as fuck, innocent in some way. Any of the older guys can give me some dating advice for long term relationship? I don't want to be tooled her. I guess the reason why I always look for short things is that I am afraid of committing to long ones..

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So...you've hung out with her for 3 days and already thinking ldr?

neo87, just thought about this shit.. fuck this is pathetic.. you have a point there man..
the main purpose of this thread wasn't really just about this specific chick.. I have no problems just ditching her(as bad as it may sound) but for now I kind of like her. What I am trying to figure out though is how to keep any girl after sex.. I got good advice from a friend moments ago and he said i should build drama and keep them hooked to me as if i was a drug.. Do you have some advice on that man?

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I think you answered your own question earlier when you said, You are going into the interactions with the women expecting them to be very short-term, and they are. Instead, take the long game approach in your mind and in your actions and in what you say to the girls after sex etc. in that you are not planning to one-and-done them.

I agree with you on that.. but no matter what i still will try to have sex with a woman as soon as possible. From my experience, the more time passes the harder it is to happen. What do you exactly mean by after sex talk? can you give me some examples on that?

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I agree with you about going for the sex asap. By long game I was referring to such as after sex, talking about something you want to do some place you want to go or restaurant and include her in the plans. A second 'date' leads to the third and before you know it you're in a relationship (if that's what you want).

ahaa.. so basically building all those images in her head of what can be.. Actually with this girl I already planned 4 or 5 different places we should go together.. This kind of makes sense now.

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