Hey guys,

( short reintroduction=> just broke with my GF so now I'm back trying to get my back up and running. I never really was an active member, I had enough with the tons of readying material here. But I feel like I matured in a way, for starters ; I don't believe in the magic pill anymore . Anyway, I have a question and I couldn't realy find an answer using the 'search' option. )

APPROACH issue:
SPAM I'm working in Brussel, very busy city with tons of colleague chicks and women walking around.
I'll spare you any further details on what works, but what doesn't work for me is when a girl/woman walks in the direction towards you ( not at you )...how do you open/stop these women when there is no eye contact ( if you made eye contact , very easy.... just smile and say 'hi').
I feel like eye contact in this situation is the only thing that makes a cold approach like this comfortable ..
Or is this just me being an AFC ?

HAVE A GOOD ONE !

Forget eye contact man. If you get it great if not, step up to the plate and open. Assume attraction. Assume that the girl will be into it (why wouldn't she). The biggest mistake some guys make over and over on the street is that before they approach they ASSUME the girl is going to keep walking. Go in, make strong eye contact and just be your smooth badass self. Assume attraction.

So basically you're saying ... BE A MAN

Yes that would pretty much explain it.