Hello - New here. I am a college student at a large university widely known for the beautiful women we have. I would say I am a pretty confident guy myself, my number being 11. I just really feel that my confidence is not where I want it to be. Everyday I walk by girls on campus, at the campus gym, yet have no confidence to make a move at them. Im always provided the opportunity to meet beautiful women but struggle with initial introduction. I consider myself pretty damn good looking and always receive passing smiles which is why I get so frustrated with my inability to just start talking to that beautiful blonde walking the opposite direction as me.

The brutal reality is looks mean shit in this game my dude. Sure it may get you in the door but if you don't have verbal game you're fucked.

I always had girls noticing me too, but it wasn't until I took my fucking balls in my hand and did something about it that any results occurred.

College game is largely social circle and party game. Running game on campus if it's overt game can get you labeled pretty fast. But laid back, talking about class, etc. "we should hang out sometime" game can work pretty well in that environment.

Go learn the game off campus. Hit the streets during the day, hit the clubs at night, whatever it is, but the end result is you have a much more relaxed flow on campus, with a tight verbal rap and that's all you need.

You're experiencing approach anxiety and that will never go away. The sooner you force yourself to approach the better off you'll be. One reason a lot of guys who want to be in the game never even so much as step foot on the field is because their ego simply cannot handle the prospect of rejection. They end up settling for the first girl who pays any prolonged attention to them. Be aware of that as you decide whether or not you want to take the plunge.

Do whatever you must for it to be automatic. Automatically assume people think you're hot, automatically assume she wants your number, automatically say "hey" and start talking. That might mean you doing many approaches in another environment so there's little cost of failure. When it's automatic, you know exactly what to say, you've heard every possible response and excuse, and you know what to say in response to it.

To get good at opening, do many openings. Just like a coach's advice to get good at free-throws.

This is exactly right. Your own assumptions become a self-fulfilling prophecy which more often than not COMES TRUE.

Yeah, I'm in college right now. Another big issue is that a lot of the freshman and sophomores do not have the maturity to handle being apporached properly.

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