And then he told her he is in love with her. And then she politely told him "you are a good man"

There we go, rock bottom. Again. Oh wait did i miss the intro? Let's do this fast.

I'm Kostas from Greece, call me methanol. I'm 26 in 1 month and currently i live in Sweden for my MSc in earth sciences and hydrogeology. Water and rocks for you slow ones. My nickname was from when i was owning noobs in counter-strike 1.6.

Short background. 19-24 girlfriend, almost engaged. Cheated on me, i became a good nice guy boyfriend clueless with women. I was in the army. I read every pua thing available starting from the game and managed to get to a decent level for 1.5 year. Army finished, back in my hometown for almost a year. I sucked. I was working full time all day, i lost my edge.

I come in Sweden. I get one-itis with a russian girl. She completely obliterates me and i end up saying i love you, wrote her a letter and got her flowers. I ended up getting nothing of course. She didn't want to jump into a relationship because her to-be husband left her 4 months ago shortly before the wedding. Funny coincidence? My ex and her had the same birthdate, same year. Fu karma.

So why am i here? I want to be strong again. I want to banish the demons and annihilate all fears. I want to convey that confidence and arrogance and titanic personality i had during my older days in the army. When i felt indestructible and nothing could touch me. I went totally to the other side and i want a balance now, but i am so pissed about all this so far and my quest for a girlfriend, because that's what i thought i missed.

Oh no. I don't need anyone. They NEED ME. I am fun and social and smart and interesting. I am the catch. I don't need a relationship. no need to hunt for it obsessed. I love my self, i will build up my inner game and make them crawl for my attention.

You can already see that my writing style is aggressive and arrogant and sarcastic. Wait until you read my blog about life here then. It's an obvious over-exaggeration at some points but i learned to use positive-self-suggestion through the Laws of Success by Napoleon Hill. I recommend that book.

So i will try to put up things that i see daily regarding women and friends and strangers around here. I don't go out 7 days a week because i have a busy master program. But when i do, i will write everything. Good things, bad things, embarrassing things. I hope i can keep this up, because studying and going out and updating my already busy blog is a hassle. Let's see, at least i have a good memory.

Issues
For the love of me i find 99% of the women here boring. The clubbing in sweden is disgusting for my liking. I can't dance for shit apart from latin, the music is atrocious, people are 90% exchange and i can't seem to make permanent friends or that people will actually invite ME out. I have to set things in motion and i am tired of that. Suggestions are useful. The women are gorgeous, but always drunk, same as the men. I was sitting next to a 9 and she was talking and talking and she was so boring, like a mongrel baboon and i told her to go away. Another drunk one came and told me i feel hot so i told her to boil an egg. Apparently i am very picky and i ve dated some pretty hot women for the past two years. Right now though i felt that i could not attract John with the glass eye.

Tomorrow or Friday i will go out. Either alone or with someone just to have a home base. Because nobody here seems to have game. This will be a rollercoaster. So let's see how it goes from tomorrow. I will start challenging myself, trying to talk to strangers and getting that anxiety destroyed. I almost always used indirect game because of AA but i want to try direct this time, or a mix of some short.

Be back soon i hope. Please let me know if the post is in the wrong place.

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10/16/2014

Not much of an update regarding women, but very important realizations about mood and being in the zone.

I was at university from 9am until 19:00 straight today to finish a working model on landslides in cuba. Since i am completely clueless about GIS i entertained the group of 4. I made them laugh like maniacs for hours and hours, one was crying and the other exploding and turning red. I was the boss, moving and talking with a swagger and vigor, steel determination and burning desire to own the room.

I told our female partner to behave like a good dog when we went out for a break. I took my friend to get some air and he started drinking bubbling water. I hate bubbling water so i used the zeus finger, pointed to 1-2 girls coming our way and told them "You, come here, how can you drink this shit?. They obeyed like dogs and complied and gave me an answer.

This is the kind of mood i need for when i go out. Tomorrow i hope to see some actual progress. I talked to 4 random girls in uni today and 2 men and had small chat. It was good. I also had some hilarious conversations in PoF where i used the apocalypse line and other stuff about exchanging orgasms from the threads in online sarging but my account got deleted probably from being an idiot.

Have a good one.

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10/17/2014

I hit the club in Uppsala yesterday. My god how can they have fun like this. I didn't talk to a lot of girls because they were crap for my standards. But let's see what we got from this.

I walked like a boss, i kept good posture and my beer low. I had a mysterious look and a small smile on my face. I can't dance because i have knee problem but i have other alternatives. Everyone was pushing in the dancefloor and when they walked so after 15 minutes i just jackhammered everyone when i walked to get them out of the way, women or men. In the end they ended up giving me space to pass.

I hit the bar straight up without caring. I am next to a friendly looking dude and while we wait for beers i use a situational opener:

Me: Why is everyone dressed with costumes once more? (everyone is dressed everynight for some reason, like lobster mans, jokers, SPAM..)
Him: It's Uppsala man, you can be what you want! What's your name, where are you from?

And it went like this for 10 minutes. Got me in the mood. He actually ended up buying me the beer. Then i sat on the table with my friends and i entertained 3-4 of them. There was a cute german girl but she had a faceless expression that i dislike so i turned my back on her and told her to fark off in Greek.

They went dancing and i go for another beer. There are some ug's next to me waiting in line and their friend is so slow. Situational again.

Me: You shortie, what's your opinions about humongous beards? (there was a guy with the biggest beard i have ever seen next to us)?
HB5: Did you just call me shortie?
Me: Answer.

She then went to have a monologue about beards, it felt like a scientific paper complete with references.

Next there were some HB6-7's waiting for the beer. Dressed as...ehm something Japanese.

Me: Why are you dressed like this? What are you supposed to be?
HB6: I am japanese sake and my friend here is black coffee.
Me: ok i can understand you but your friend's costume sucks. She just wears black clothes its no costume.
HB7: What?! Bla bla bla bla bla. What's your name. What are you dressed at.
Me: I am methanol, i am a vampire hunter and i occasionally i dress as a human. Do you have an on/off switch button?

They laughed we had a small banter i touched the Hb7 2-3 times and i left because they were more mind numbing than lobotomy.

I crashed another table with random people and immediately became the center of attention. I just joined the conversation from nowhere. I am proud of that. A short jordan girl i was biting last month also saw me and she hugged me running and i lifted her up like paper with one hand which was quite the DHV. I saw an estonian girl we were making out ages ago and she told me my friend was drunk. I told her now i remember why men don't talk to you anymore.

In the dance floor we had some fun. The club closes at 01:00 and i see a spanish girl coming to me. HB7 tops. I completely hug her like we are dancing tango
Me: You smell so good i want to bite your neck off and smack your ass (seriously first line)
Her: Thank you! (she was 99% wasted)

I go for the kiss and our stupid irish girl-friend cockblocks me. I took revenge after stupid asexual being.

In the end we are outside the club and i m talking with a german guy and a czech girl. Hb6 or something. I played the 5 lies game and i got a bit in the neck. It was horrible. I told her. The guy seemed amazed though.

That's it for now. Not much, but a good start. Peace.

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Hey!

Nicely written, really entertaining.
that initial story, shit bro. I'm the same age and trying to overcome a past long relationship too.
But seems like you're doing pretty great for a starter. Soon enough you'll be pulling KC and FC's on your field reports.

I'll keep an eye out

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You're doing well. When you get over your AA completely you should experement with direct openers. In addition, I reccomend learning Stealth Attraction and slowly stepping away from all the canned Mysery/Style stuff.

Good luck!

By the way, I'm not sure what the mentality was when you served in the Army, but as a U.S. Marine we have a "We are the most badass force on the planet" attitude. Try to carry that same mentality.

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Thanks for all your feedback. I was enlisted for only a year, but i was in the helicopter division special forces. I have a fear of heights, so i m used to battling things that make me uncomfortable. I get up each day look myself in the mirror and say "I am the most handsome man in the planet, and i am the boss".

I am going to finland to pound a finnish girl for 9 days tomorrow so there will be a short break. I also have been gaming 4 women online from russia. It is so easy but i m experienced with them and i know the language. So lets see what happened today.

20/10/2014

So i have swedish class. I get there early and i see a tall woman with glasses and oh my god, a skirt exactly the way i like it. The one that is red with the tiles i cant explain it. So i have been eyeballing her for 2 hours straight but i make no move, i got an exam tomorrow and i study.

So apparently she enters my swedish class. I smell blood.

Me: "Hi do you know what we did last time in class?"
HB8: Sorry it's my first time here.
Me: Oh i saw you down the hallway before studying.
HB8: Oh you did?
Me: A woman with your style and looks cannot go unnoticed.
HB8: I am flattered...What's your name?
Me: Methanol and you?
Hb8: Diane, nice to meet you. I like direct people not pussies.
Me: Fark yes. +5 points for you. Tomorrow we will go for a beer, 8:13 sharp i want to learn more about you.
HB8: I would love to.

Jackpot. I will jackhammer her tomorrow night. Lesson learned? Don't be a pussy. I got a second chance here and i took it by the skirt. Oh wait hehe.

So it is not going bad. I have gotten rid of my one-itis, i have 2 finnish women that want to fark my brains for 9 days, i have this woman that i dig and i have 2 russian women and a pole dancer that are willing to fly from saint petersburg and moscow to suck the little general.

Goodnight!

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I always deliver.

21/10/2014

Well i said i d take out the swiss girl from yday. I wont get into much detail. I just was myself. But she turned out to be a virgin and not only that she had never been kissed before. It's ok, the thing i kept from all this is that when i want something, i get it. And she was actually pretty sweet. I liked the part where she told me she was happy that i was her first kiss. I don't need fancy tricks and everything, i just have to adapt and calibrate each situation and this one required a bit more sweet and beta/gentleman behavior.

I am off to finland today for 9 days, so i doubt i ll post anything in the meantime as me and the finnish girl will do it like the do it on the discovery channel.

Peace

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Good job so far. I know it's hard to belive but dates are AFC, and virgins are difficult to close unless you're looking for an LTR.

Mystery has a good way of F-closing without a date, just invite her to your place and tell her to bring something.

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Thanks for the feedback. Well it was not a "date" we just got together and i did my things. She is a nice girl i will see how it goes i was straight with her actually and told her don't expect me to promise you love and shower you with compliments and she was actually pretty happy. I will keep doing what i am doing for now as there are no strings attached Goodnight see you in 10 days!

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No Problem. I find it useful to read other peoples field reports and tactics. The issue is that sometimes newbies give bad advice (I only give advice in the fields I know, Opening and Midgame. Anything about closing I'll leave to anyone else) or some people lie.

Anyway, happy sarging mate!

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Record: 131
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