Hey,

I've been seeing this girl for a week, all things went well and we hung out every other day. First night we met she told me she had a boyfriend so I don't escalate, we end up back at mine (she follows me back to mine after I walk her home) things got a bit hot and heavy but no sex or kissing.

I was quite happy keeping her in the friend zone using her as a wing, but still the same cycle repeats itself of her ending back at mine. So last night we go to a party with her friends for the first time, she gets quite drunk and dances quite sexually/tries to get off with me which her friends obviously don't approve of. Anyway she sobers up early in the morning offers me to stay at hers so I don't have to pay cab-fare, once again things get hot and heavy but no sex or kissing.

Later in the day she texts me:

"I think it's best we don't hang out anymore"

Not hung up about this girl, just want advice where I went wrong and how I could prolong this relationship/friendship as she was a pretty cool girl.

She developed feelings for you.

Her friend's made her feel guilty since she made a public showing that she was into you. She also is probably frustrated that nothing has happened all those times she spent the night with you.

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What do you mean by hot and heavy?

softcore, RP and foreplay

Soft core and foreplay without kissing? That's a new one.

Ok well Maria is right - chick is into you and her mates gave her some shit for it or called her a slut.

Not much you can do if she's serious about it. You could just say "no problem" and next time you see her out and about you can try to escalate. See where that goes... May work. May not.

Yeah it's weird, I kinda felt like a prostitute not kissing, but it's the whole intimacy barrier thing. I would have faced LMR and the boyfriend objection much faster had we kissed.

Thanks for all the advice, definitely helpful!

She's going on the same night out as me in a week, needless to say I'm taking your advice and going all-cards in if I see her. Nothing to loose.

She has feelings for you, is attracted to you and keeps following you back to your place. Give it a go; as you said, nothing to lose.

When you guys met up at first you obviously became an alpha in her eyes. But your lakc of action made her rethink the situation and you lost the status. The truth is she wanted to be fuk buddies or even dump the chode boyfriend of hers for you. But u didnt wip it out and now she is cold.

That is what you get for being a pussy(no disrespect it just i wish someone told me this when I encountered this situaion)

Cheers.
Ted H