2 weeks ago I posted something about my GF and I having problems. Now we broke up last week and I must say Im having a hard time dealing with it.

The hardest part is feeling alone. I tried using Tinder but not really with much results. Also, going out to sarge is hard for me bc my friends are all students and Im working already. That means im never into the position to join them.

Furthermore, my ex sends me some random messages sometimes like thx for your card (I left her a card I found with some heart on it 1,5 week ago). Why does she do this and should I say something back?

As you can read, I can use some good advice on how to move on good and deal with this feeling of shit!

It takes time man. That's the only remedy. Just have to let it play out naturally. You rightly don't feel like "going out and getting laid" right now and that's totally fine. Keep being kind to yourself and know that awesome days are on the horizon.

As far as replying to her, reconnecting with her, go with your gut.

Take this from someone you lost his wife and kids out of a 9 year relationship.

I highly advice you even if you don't feel like it to go out and fuck 10 other women.
I know right now you may not want to here that(neither did I ) but its the only remedy for you feeling lonely.
Forget your friends bc they will only make you feel worse since they are not broken hearted right now.

I am almost certain that after you are done fucking 10 other women you will feel much better.

Well you see thats the problem. I cant go out to meet women because Im on my own. Also, yesterday I fucked one but it made me feel worse because shes a lot worse than my ex.

Thats why you need to fuck 10. Please trust me. i am saying this from the bottom of my heart because i was in a living hell after i broke up with my ex wife and i really dont desire that pain not even to my worst enemy.
Take it like a mission our something you need to do in order to feel better.
Dont compare and dont let anyone know you are fucking them. Just do it!!! dont tell your friends. And dont entertain your ex breadcrumbs, she is not doing it to get back she is doing it for and ego boost.

The only way to even have a remote chance of getting back with her can only be done after you literally fuck ten other women. The sooner you fuck those 10 the better.

I found that out the hard way instead of listening to the veterans here. There is a reason they all prescribe FTOW after a breakup.

Did you fuck 10 other women?

Yes i have and by the 4 one my ex wife was not even a thought in my mind. The only time I ever think about her is when I have to see my kids.

Also when she found out i fucked other women all of a sudden she shows up to my house at 7am asking me if i wanted to see my kids. I ended up fucking her as well.

But in the state of mind you are in now you will not be able to get back with her. By the time you fucked the 7 girl you will not want to get back with her niether.

Thanks bro nice job. The only problem that remains is where to find the girls as I cannot go out that much and Tinder is not helpful either. Did you just approach them on the street?

to be honest I met most of them in night clubs and some thru mutual friends.

Also after loosing my family i really didn't care if i got rejected or not. my approaches will be real aggressive and to the point. Almost as if expecting a rejection but to my surprise I would not get rejected and would get more pussy. I was approaching with a I don't give a fuck mentality. I didn't care if it was a HB10 I would approach all of them the same way.

I dont recommend you approach like that because it might not work for you. I usually go for real easy and slutty women so I had a much less chance of getting rejected.