| What worked for me in these situations-
Being more smooth, rather than being crazy and super hyper. I am naturally a high strung guy, so going up and smiling and being "flashy game" is totally congruent, but never seems to work for me. So I was calm initially and then escalated up to that point slightly.
First girl- I first asked for a kiss on the cheek so I could shoot better in beer pong, and she said alright and kissed my cheek, I missed and said damn it that wasn't good enough, then the next shot I was like alright make this an awesome one and went straight for the lips and she went for it. We made out in front of everyone for like 2 seconds, then I shot and made it and she was all super excited, we did it again, and then I stopped asking for them and she went to find her friends. I texted her about 20 mins later and said did you leave me? And she said no I am still here, so I found her and we danced, then made out, then she was afraid of her friends judging her for making out with me because her friends don't know me, so I took her outside away from the judgement zone. We proceeded to make out and me finger her on the porch through her jeans, while all my friends were talking about me being good with girls and "get it policebaton!"ing the entire time. I stayed very present with her and ignored it, and she didn't skip a beat. I flicked them off while I was fingering her with the other hand, her pussy was super wet so I said "I am the neighbor let's go to my place". At first she was down, and then about 2 steps away she goes "wait my friends are here why would I go to your house" and I said "did you know I am an amazing artist? I have the best art collection" (total lie, I still draw stick figures for class illustrations) and I said just two seconds and we will be back and she was like alright whatever. So we walked back to my place, got steamy on my bed, but her ASD kicked in, like I assumed it would, and I took her back to her friends.
Second girl, after going back to the party I see a girl standing alone by the empty DJ booth, and she is texting. I said where are you friends? And she said they left her, so I made small talk about classes and what not, told her I'd giver her a ride home cause I actually had to drive her direction to drop a car off, and she complied. We walked back to my house to "get my skateboard" and as we were talking she sat on my couch, which was a great sign she wasn't in a hurry to get out. We talked about camping and family and what not, she was so shy when I told her she was beautiful, and she showed me her bikini pictures, and I just went for a makeout halfway through. We made out twice for like 4 minutes, but I didn't really escalate she kinda pulled back and said she had to go. I wasn't exactly sure what to say cause it was 330am and she had to pick up her car from some house, so I just got her number and kissed her again and dropped her off.
So this was a good night of cold approaching/warm approaching. I am practicing a new demeanor for myself, not more crazy wild policebaton, more smooth cool guy policebaton. So far so Gucci.
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