Where did I fuck up with this girl? (My version)



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 2:35 pm 
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Yea so finally text her again just to make sure we cool & no hard feelings she sends this back.
Her: You and I want 2 different things and that's ok. We spoke about it.
Absolutely no hard feelings, you are a kind sweet gentleman. I do appreciate the moments we spent together.

So there it is folks. What boggles me is that they come to this realization after you smash when they already knew before hand.
wish I could've kept this one tho. Oh well!

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Sounds to me like she is trying to get you to want the same thing she wants. She is making an obvious statement that you two want different things. The only reason in my eyes a girl would boldly say that, is to see if you will change your mind. My advice? Try to ease into letting her know your looking for what she is. I think if she thought you guys wanted the same thing she might find an attraction out of that/


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 4:57 pm 
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Wow so this chick is a nut job or she wasn't lying about an emotional roller coaster. So after dismissing me yesterday I send her this in the morning. .
Me: Now that we broke up can you can go back to being nice again and saying GM?
Her: Lol, i'm sorry pudding. Gm honey bunches of oats.

Then she texts about waking up late today blah blah..

She's back to pet names and acting like yesterday's texts never happened...WTF! Lol


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2014 10:28 pm 
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So listen up, you are a fucking idiot. You seduced her like a player, then came off like a dick and after that got all sensitive for no valid reason. Your problem in this case is that she feels like you did not change your approach to her after she told you clearly atleast 3 times that she has other goals.

Let's say you still don't give two fucka about her and just want to smash which i support because why the fuck should you get with her and her kid. BUT, she can't know this, so this is what i suggest. You're gonna hit her up with a text saying that recently one of your female friends who is also a single mother is going through a similar situation confessed to you how hard times are and it made you think of her while brining out a more sensitive side of yours. Say you want to meet her to simply talk because you feel like she changed the way you see the world, add at the end "i realize that you do not owe me anything and i hope you'understand that i'm coming from a genuine direction and like to see you for coffee/tea/walk in the park". "I'll leave you for now and maybe i'll hear from you again". Act compassionate and show emphaty but WITHOUT neediness and appearing like a cheap player boy that plays tricks.

If you do meet her for that rendez-vous don't fucking try to seduce her, prepapre your story about your fake female friend in advance and talk about her don't be a retard. She'll fall in love with your non needy attitude that still cares about her but DOESNT NEED HER.

Hope this helps
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 11, 2014 2:26 am 
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Yea so finally text her again just to make sure we cool & no hard feelings she sends this back.
Her: You and I want 2 different things and that's ok. We spoke about it.
Absolutely no hard feelings, you are a kind sweet gentleman. I do appreciate the moments we spent together.

So there it is folks. What boggles me is that they come to this realization after you smash when they already knew before hand.
wish I could've kept this one tho. Oh well!

Any comments???
Yea, that's just kind of her way of cutting ties with someone she believes isn't going to give her what she truly wants. We've already told you to move on, so that still stands.

But it's not a complete lost cause because you can still stay in touch with her. Just whatever you do don't try to act like you've changed or convince her to get back with you. Simply be the same cool dude she got to know to begin with and maintain your frame. Who knows, maybe a year or two from now you'll still be in touch and she'll consider giving you another chance without you having to ask for it. All of that is possible as long as you don't go doing bad things by irreparably damaging the tenuous relationship you still have with her. Don't AFC it up.

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