Guys like Corey Wayne and a lot of PUA artist seem to adhere to this rule of if you have a girl's number, and you set a date, don't contact again until just before the date... See I set one today (Sunday) for Thursday, and I don't want to shut her out until then. I'd like to text her, get to know her, and show interest in her before the date... Should I? This is easily the best looking woman I've ever arranged a date with, a solid 8 for sure. Oh and she's also two years older than me, I'm 25. If that makes any difference.

From my experience, you should keep the plate spinning with girls till the meet. No, I don't mean texting constantly, there is way to do it without giving up serious man points.

Lets say for example, i was to get her number on Friday night and arrange a date for the next Friday.

I would text her something short and snappy, 'bet my day beats up your day', or a picture of a tasty looking meal I just ate with the caption 'jealous?' get her to think about you in her head basically.

I would text her Sunday, Tue, Then on thursday, I will do the same but then add on the end "bla bla, see you tomorrow, I might fun a few mins late though because of bla reason'

That's how I do it and it works for me. Corey Wayne or whoever he is - his way never seemed to work for me, they would always tend to forget or make plans.

When girls are into you, they tend to text YOU random stuff anyway. It's great to be the replier rather than the texter, but that is best case scenario.

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I've learned that being super spontaneous works best.

Not scheduling a week in advance.... RIGHT NOW.

Put the girl on the spot. Girls are flakey as fuck. There is no use planning with them because you just get all excited looking forward to it. Be spontaneous man. Girls like it and it makes it easier for you.

Contacting her is fine, but you shouldn't be looking to get to know her over text. These are the exact scenerios why pua's come up with these "don't contact til just before the date" stuff. Because if you plan on messaging her and getting to know her and show interest in her through text before the date, your screwing up. You're better off not messaging. Now if you have the ability to text just a bit, and keep her interested in you without giving out too much, then by all means. But you shouldn't be looking to get to know her before the date. That's what the date is for. You want to peak her interest and have things to talk about on the date. Not before.

I totally agree. Most of the time i F-close on the first date and without even asking her text or say hey i am going there at 8pm or what ever so dress nice.

They usually respond with OK, Dont do it on a weekend, do that on a tuesday night or monday, Pick a day of the week that you know they are just bored at home and with no friends,

After you fuck them what ever you do i dont care if it was the best fuck of your life DO NOT CALL HER OR TEXT HER, Wait till she calls you and when she does act like you are not interested or that you are busy.

Some good points have been made. The main thing is to not really try to get to know her via text. Might as well call her at and talk if you want to do that. The texting thing is mainly just to get her to invest time and effort into you and build rapport. It's easy to flake on someone you don't know and haven't talked to much.

Some girls get butt hurt if you cancel so be careful when doing that. When scheduling dates I would use language like "Let's try for Sunday..." or "I may be able to go out Thursday night." Basically what you are doing is shrouding the date in uncertainty. It may or may not happen for all she knows. You are important and busy and you are just trying to fit her in somewhere. You can also cancel and reschedule the same day or the next day. Those details don't really matter as long as you keep her on her feet and she's not sure if you are interested or if she'll get the chance to see you again. Just mix it up.

This kind of relates to the thing about not making yourself too available, and makes her want to chase you.

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