Me and this chick dated for about 6 months HB 8.5 and everything was smooth while we were in "Talking stage" went out daily had good laughs , dates were fine went half and half on most things we had a great connection. Somewhere along the line after giving her the GF title things took a turn for the worst. Little things i would say would annoy her and it was like walking on egg shells, not knowing what to say was starting to turn me off , but i do know no relationship is perfect. But its like every time we would get into little arguments she would always say she wants to break up but wouldn't go thru with it. She accuses me of not taking the time to get to know her friends or family which is I tried but im not that big of a talker so we got into a big arugment over that and she said some hurtful things and then stated that she wasn't happy in the relationship and ended it.

I went sort of beta trying to get her to come back by apologizing for how i came off durring the argument but she never once apologized and blames it on hormone imbalance and never apologized and says i should be more understanding, but i cant have someone talk to me any kind of way and just take it. Shes sent me text saying she hasnt eaten in days because of me and that she would never be my g/f again and to go and date someone else because we are not compatible and to just get over her and its like shes blaming me for everything that happend.

She's very stubborn and i know calling a girl and texting after a break up is only going to push her away but i feel like its something besides no contact i can do to get her back , it hurts because we had such a good time before i gave her the title and i want that back.

Any help Bros?

Sounds like she needs a psychiatrist more than she needs a boyfriend.

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move This. OP move on before you get more attached to her. Trust me on this one.

Yeah best to move on. She sounds crazy, but let me say this. A relationship's success depends not just on how much fun you have when things are good. Your conversation is annoying to her. Don't take it personal. She could find someone who is boring compared to you, but if his conversation topics are more interesting to her, let her be with that person. Everyone likes to talk about different things. Let her find someone who talks the things she wants to talk about. Likewise, find someone who likes the things you talk about.

She wants someone who feels like part of her friends and family. That's not you. Let her find that guy who can do that. In summary, life is too short to be unhappy. For both of you. You're not compatible in areas that are important to her. Win her back or whatever, but these problems will just resurface unless you change for her. To make it work, either you will change or she will hide her dissatisfaction better. Do you want to change for a girl? Or do you want a girl to be with you even though she is unhappy? You're not compatible. Find someone who is compatible with you.

There's always going to be some problems and differences, but the big red flag here is the thing about her family and friends. As soon as you get sucked into that blackhole of validation seeking you will either never escape or you will be destroyed by it.

You see, girls like that can't really accept you for you. They like certain things about you but want to change the rest so that you fit the exact mold of the ideal guy they think they want. If she is giving you reasonable suggestions or has valid gripes, then maybe there is room for some personal improvement on your part. But from my experience with crappy ex's and their social circles, you will never win when it comes to her family and friends unless you are some awesome outgoing rich guy that everyone loves and sucks up to.

I know its hard, but prepare yourself mentally to move on from this one.

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