Gentlemen,

I come to you seeking advice. Step by step would be the best, because I can be a little dense sometimes, to be truly honest.
Recently, I started going on dates with this girl who I have several mutual friends with. They are always telling me she is into me, and I can tell she is by how she acts. However, recently, she has been a bit distant. After a few days of not communicating with me, I saw her at a party and we ended up going home together. We start making out and I finally bring up the few days of silence. She says that she had just broken up with her boyfriend the week before I started talking to her, and it is her first month of college so she doesn't know if she wants to settle down so soon...
How do I get this girl to stick around? She started to distance herself again...

Help me out brothas!
Thanks,

~LD

Fuck other girls. She wants her freedom. Fuck her GOOD if she comes around, but don't think about tieing her down. Find a girl who is ready to be a gf, or do your own thing single.

But I'd really like to date this girl...how can I get her past this? Is time the only way? Or should I pursue in a special type of way?

Read your posts for some context. Sounds like you're wanting her because you haven't gotten much success. Don't get into a relationship until you have 5 other equally attractive girls to choose from.

Agreed. If you want to lock this girl down you need her to want to lock YOU down.

You do this with an abundance mentality and not giving a fuck about any outcome with her.

This.

She told you she isn't ready to settle. So go out and find other girls. And when this girl says she wants nothing serious, agree with her and bang her.

Its different considering she just got out of a relationship- If you want to lock it down, you also want to make sure you aren't a rebound. I agree with the posts above- talk to other girls and let her make the approach of taking it somewhere.

I can't tell you what to do because I don't know this girl or you or your guys' situations. But I can tell you what NOT to do.

Don't try too hard. Don't chase her. Don't be needy. Don't try to make her or yourself something you aren't.

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^ Agree with all the above posters and will add this. Why the fuck are you brining up the 2 days of silence when you are making out and presumably trying to get laid? Talk about that shit in the morning over coffee next time.

She's just out of an LTR. It's not healthy to jump right into one with her because she will be comparing you to her EX every single time and trust me, it isn't healthy, especially when he re-appears.