She broke it of today, and wants to start it over all again, she said she wants to be single but only is going to see me, i igonerd her alot in the past month but she knows that i only want her and that i care for her, i dont get it why we arent togheter and just work the things out. what should i do, she knows that she feels that i wont show her off to my friends and that she is never invited to hang with my friends, we started dating last year in april, she has met my friends and knows who they are, the reason why i havnt invited her is cus when im with my friends im with my friends, and when im with her im with her, another thing she complained about was that i never uploaded a pic of her on my instagram.

im kind of confused would need some good tips

This... is an oxymoron.

You don't have a say in this?

If what she's saying isn't what you want, then speak the fuck up and tell her that doesn't work for you.

It's not a logical request and was only made to make you react.

You can choose to go along playing childish games with her or you can make your relationship work the way you want it to work.

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Or agree and do what she's going to do: Fuck other people. Just don't tell her.

What she wants is more cock in her mouth but she wants to have you as a backup. Either you call her out and tell her to cop on as Finley said or you can agree, hope she doesn't fuck anyone else and go do your own thing. Afterall, she ended it. It's nothing on you seeing as you're not in a relationship... Best of both worlds imo unless you're seriously attached to this girl exclusively.

If you want her break it off, move on and she'll very likely come back.

I understand why she told you to stay single. First of all why is it a big deal to invite her once or twice and meet your friends if she is your gf?
From the requests she asked you I am understanding that she wants the security that the world knows that you are together. If you upload a photo of her on your instagram it will give the signal to the other girls that you are taken.
I sense some kind of insecurity from her part.
What she told you ( ie that she wants to stay single but only see you) is to be able to have her options open ( as the other people here suggested). She wants you but she is not 100% into you.
I think that you have two options. You either leave it and move on or you introduce her to your friends and see what she says. If she demands more things then it is about time that you stand up for yourself and end it.

She said its over for now and we might get back yoghurtdryck in the future, she changed her mind when i told her, you gotta choose now if you can couperate and take in what im gonna say or Else i cant be with you

She told you she only wants to see you? Well if you believed that, you'll believe anything.

I want her back what should i do

I've said this before and I'll say it again. Once a woman breaks up with you, it's easier for her to break up with you a second time.

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Then let it be over, feel like i didnt give it my best, if i try and it wont work, im fine with that

Any tips on how to ger her back?

Look, if you want her back, you can't acquiesce to her current demands. You want a relationship, she doesn't. It's either she backs down or you do. There is no middle ground. This thing about being single but only seeing you is utterly ridiculous. So just tell her you will not accept a halfway relationship. Are you really going to just accept any nonsense because you like her? You don't even value yourself or have any unshakable principles, that's why she even came up with such a BS proposal. She knows you and knew you'd fall for it. If you want to be a man then start acting with some intelligence dammit.

I'm not trying to be overly harsh but I just want you to see the importance of having standards and sticking to them. What your girlfriend is doing, is the equivalent of something a lot of men do. Let me give you examples.

A guy dates a girl for several months, and one day gives her a "promise ring" and asks her to "move in together". Many women will accept to do this because they have no standards whatsoever for how a relationship is supposed to go. If people would think about it, here is what the man is really saying:
"I like you, so I want you to live with me and do all the things a wife does. However I won't give you the privilege of being a real wife because you don't deserve that much."

Ideally, a woman will do what most women did a century ago: she will not even give sex or move in until she has her ring and her wedding. However in consideration of modern laxity, I will allow that a woman with standards will not accept to move in until she has her wedding. People might say "you'll be lonely forever" but in reality, there are 3+ billion men in the world and a woman only needs 1 to marry her.)

And now you can see clearly, that your girlfriend is basically telling you the following:
-I know you're a pushover, so just accept this stupid idea I have.
-I don't want to commit to you but I want to keep you around as a plan B.
-You have no standards and I don't respect you, that's why I ended it in the first place.

Please stick to your principles. If you don't have any, it is time to think and come up with some. Principles are not thrown away for anyone. You must have some idea of what a proper relationship is, and what is acceptable or unacceptable. Stick to those ideals.

I met her again yesterday, we had fun and laughed she said that she misses me sometimes, and that she wish that it was like that before we ended it, she also said if we tried again it would feel like you take me out with ur friends cuse i said so and not cuse you want to. Then later on she said we should wait 2-4 weeks till we can see eachother again, we both agreed to do it as friends, what should i do to win her back? And what shouldnt i do