Hi guys, so i am 22 years old, been practising pick up last two years .... and i met this 20 yr girl ... without any hesitation ... walked straight to her ... started talking .... got her number asked her out ... and got her into relationship. From the beginning it was great. Sex good too. But then her grandpa passed away.... and she was a tash for a week but no big deal .... only her grandma ... who is not able to take care of herself had to move to their house and some had to always be arround her. At this point i stared fucking things up... Often i came across as being too needy and angry even though i knew that she doesn t have an option ... So a month flew by and the grandma was gone but the things were already seriosly fucked up and she lost the attraction.
I haven't realised those things and I didn't know that she was loosing attraction cause we were still seeing each other and she looked normal even to the last day she told me that she needs a pause and that we should be friends in the meantime and maybe later something will change.

Now, i really like this girl .... But honestly, i am not naive and realise that she probably said those thngs just because she is a good girl and dind't want to loose me completly ....
So any any and every advice wold be much appreciated.

Best advice would be to move on. You are correct, it's her nice way of saying I'll be getting dick elsewhere, but you are still welcome to buy me stuff.

Freeze her out, date other girls. Hanging around won't fix it.

The best cure is distance.

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