This girl was by far the hottest in the bar. Her along with a couple friends were dancing on the dance floor. They would go to each group of guys usually in groups of 3 and ask them to take a picture of them dancing and laughing looking sexy etc. Course all the guys do exactly as their told and on top of that try to flirt but no one gets anywhere. I don't know what the girls objective was. Maybe they wanted to meet a lot of guys and get a shit load of attention. If so they more than achieved that goal.

My question is... how do approach this situation?

This is what I did and failed.

I told the HB11 shes in my dancing space trying to play it off like I'm the shit. It phased her for about 2 seconds, then she just snubbed me off. I couldnt really open with a long opener cause the music was so damn loud.

You didnt neg her nor disqualified yourself. What you did was just be mean. PPl who are mean are not socially inteligent and low value. If you had just been there at the bar looking like a chode you probably didnt have any chance to begin with. You need some social proof, like open some sets, have fun, etc. Ppl notice that. Having girls with you help as well.

When shes asking you something its basicly a shit test, like "can you buy me a drink." You could have ignored her then thow some attraction stuff at her then have disqualified yourself (one cliche line is, "youre fun, to bad your not my type") Then threw some more attraction routine at her (possibly neg if she was really hot). Then its up to you.

You could have made a counter request of her like, ok Ill take a picture of you if you make out with me.

The possibilities are endless but yeah it was a shittest and you failed.

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Your right...thanks. I got some work to do.

that was a bit harder of a neg than I would have gone with instead I would have gone the route that I have seen work out many a time......

(hb11) hey let me take my picture with you!

(me) it's gunna cost you five bucks im not a cheap hooker ya know

(hb11) !

(me) ok i guess I could give you a freebie this once but it costs 10$ to put your arm around me or I will settle for you buying me a drink

(hb11) omg you are so crazy!

(me) i know it's just the way I am you should see me when I am drunk....(lean forward kino escelate whisper in ear) all the more reason for you to buy me that drink good lookin

something along these lines would have been perfect for your situation (in my meager opinion) and then you could have gone into a C&F routine or throw and go

~EeK

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this is the perfect opportunity! there are so many possibilities to pick and to get shut down. it's a win lose situation. i think the other guys are right ur neg was a lil too harsh. if they asked me to take a picture of them i'd say i'd do it but then when they posed for the shot i'd tell them it was all wrong. try to make them change position and stuff. if that works then ur in control...where the other guys just took the pic and tried to flirt. after suggest u know a way to get the best shot. then give the cam to another random guy and ask him to take a pic of all of u. Now thats alpha!

the neg was the right call but remember it's not an insult but not a compliment either.

Cheers