Hey, I've never been on one of these forums before so don't know what to expect, but there seems to be a lot of decent people from what I've read so hopefully you can offer me some advice.

I'm 21, from Cornwall (UK), and I've read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and "Influence" by Robert Cialdini. Halfway through reading "Mystery Method" by Mystery. I've had barely any experience in the field (mainly down to confidence issues) but I've seen and done just enough to know that it works.


Was actually wondering if you guys could advise me on something:


Basically, I have an excuse to meet up with this girl, and as much alone time as needed with her to take things forward, but I don't know how to go about it. Here's some more detail:

I've been meeting up with this girl on a regular basis for about two weeks. Not in a dating kind of way. I met her on a musician's website because we both played guitar and wanted someone else to play with. So that's officially why we meet up, but when we do, we also chat a lot. We both connect pretty well and have a lot in common. We're both pretty shy, quiet people, so occasionally it gets a bit awkward, but it seems like there is some connection there. I just don't know what to do next.


Some tips/advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

Get more personal with your chit chat...

And start touching her.

Start small... touch on the hand... a high five, etc - then move on to the leg or something... and then go to the lower back with your hand...

Don't tell her you like her. Ever.

Show her instead.