Shes allsays on her phone browsing the internet or doing whatever, then i try to talk to her she gets annoyed and allways keeps on saying ome minute, how do i deal with this? in allways going on too much but f i spend time on my own mothing changes.

She also refuses to go out or do anything, but says she def doesnt want to break up and want this relationship, any tips?

You can always try to get a girlfriend that knows how to act when she's around you.

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Its not that al all, weve been togheter for 4 years, shes just ignoring me and its not because she doesnt know how to act around me at all, weve had tons of good times togheter.

I dont want to end it, she also says she wants to work on our relationship but sitting next to a ghost is mopre fun .

So you're saying she ignores you by choice? She knows that you don't like it but she continues to do it, right? She knows you want to go out and have fun, but she doesn't want to do it? This doesn't sound like the behavior of a woman that really cares about how you feel in a relationship.

What you're describing isn't a person who is ignoring you to punish you for doing something wrong. She is actually ignoring you because she can get away with it if she wants to and knows that you'll still be there. You are the submissive one in the relationship and you'll never ever be happy as long as you are. She says she wants to work on the relationship, but all she is doing is keeping you on a string while you are on a forum trying to figure out how you can make her pay attention to you. If she really cared, she'd put her phone down when you walked in the room and ask what you wanted to do tonight, which would solve the problem.

Tons of good times together are just memories no matter how many years. You can have tons of good times with a woman that is willing to pay attention to you. You can have tons of good times with a woman who will do the things you like. Instead of hoping tomorrow would be a better day with her, you'd be looking forward to tomorrow with her.

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I ujust ended it with her but shes still pretty much non responsive... she doesnt think i mean it but i dont want a relationshipship like this.

Can get awawith it? no more...

I'm proud of you. Now you have to stick to your guns.

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She followed me downstaris and was sitting behind me witho9ut saying anything, went back up she asked me what i was doing upstairs, just said nothing.

Well see what happeneds, she def wont get away with her old behavor anymore, indeed ive been to submissive

She also doesnt want sex with me but was half an hour in the toilet 2 hours ago doing whatever, now shes in the toilet again... I have no problem with her doing stuff, but i do with ignoring me, acting avoidant etc...

As an aside we are still living togheter, we cant live seerate arm.

Earlier i kept saying im ending it and she kept saying no your not, shee doesnt think im serieus.

this forum is the best.

we met because she contacted me online, haha why would she do that? alot of people did and fo9r good reason, she will realise what she lost, i had alot of issues the last years but its time to get back on track with a good job etc, i cant let things keep keep me down