I am 20, and getting into this game. Was smart, athletic, and well-liked in high school. Got into college and it was a surprise how different the social scene was, especially moving from the west to east coast. No social proof. Although I am still well-liked, I find it hard most of all to escalate.

Trying to improve:

-social circles
-dancing, and learning how to have fun when dancing
-escalating physically, emotionally, and sexually

Hello and welcome !

Oh yes I know what you mean when you mention how different the social scene is between high school and college or just anything different from high school. Must be existing having to move from such a far distance. Gear up for the winter weather, it can get pretty cold around here. The good thing is that a lot of students are in the same shoes as you are so your not alone. It's not like your the only new guy in town. To improve your social circle I would say to make sure you are active in sports, clubs or other school activities that help you meet and be around people often. It will help a lot of join activities that you actually like because that's how you will find other people with similar interest, especially women. Be the guy who will add value to a person or group, the guy that introduces himself first and find something that you honestly like about a guy or girl in a group and tell them about it (Something that is not so obvious). You want to focus on making friends first rather than looking for girls first. Once you start meeting cool guys and girls who you can be friends with they will introduce you to their cute or hot female friends. Make sure you find the very social people because they can introduce you to a lot of people.

_________________
Learn how to attract and seduce hot women today: http://www.attractandseducehotwomen.net

This is terrible advice. You should look for women regardless. You don't want to be the guy waiting for others to introduce you to women. You want to be the guy that knows how to get the women you want.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com

Agreed. If you can get an introduction, do, but don't wait for or count on it.

And also, to the previous posts about making friends and seeking out women, I really realized that I had to be more active in making friends to really hook. But I feel like it takes so much effort almost like another extracurricular activity.

I guess like any activity, it will take active learning and practice