Hey fellow brothers,

After hearing of PUA and reading through many material , I thought I'd set up a POF account. There is one girl that I'm talking to. But the thing is she is busy as she claims and doesn't come on POF that often.. I was seeking you guys can critique my msgs and tell me what I can work on...How would I get her to hook on? I was thinking of possibly segwaying her to perhaps chat on facebook as she isn't on POF that often. What do you guys think?

P.S. I know that I should've msged around as it does show neediness and realized after.. (newbie errors )

Thank you very much

9/1/2014 11:08:36 AM

ME: Hello there, Did I just read that we have another Sri Lankan in the house? Woooooweeeee !! :p Hopefully I wasn't too loud with that lol !! Not to be rude are you really that age ?


9/5/2014 1:05:18 PM

Quick question, why come on here if you're going to ignore all the guys anyway.

9/7/2014 6:17:17 PM

HB: Loll .... im sorry I wasn't trying to ignore u ... been moving so haven't been on in a while ... n lol yes I'm actually 27 ... lol why is that bad? Anyways I hope you're having a fab sunday night!

9/8/2014 1:03:07 PM
ME: Well for starters you can make it up to me by telling me your name .. Moving back home? Reason I ask is you look like you're my age

Wow Beauty and brains in one eh? Must be my lucky day Thats not common ! Loll

9/23/2014 12:55:26 AM
ME: Knock knock Dr. !!!

9/23/2014 9:47:38 AM

HB: Haha so sorry ... works been retarded ... the names XXXXX:) ... n yes the plan is moving back home .... whats ur name mystery man,


9/24/2014 1:10:39 AM
ME:
This mystery man's name is XXXX:) .. Is it rotational for your clinical or are just running around helping out the more specialized doctors? Moving back home? .... wait you're not looking to sponsor over you're groom from Canada to Aussieland :p loll

Hey man,

You might want to consider not laughing at your own jokes/comments and indeed, not laughing at hers either. Laughing at your own comments to illicit laughter from her is a 'lower status move'. And laughing at anything she puts and finding everything she says interesting come's across as too eager. Same with emoticons too. I only use them if it's necessary. Usually when it's early in the interaction and I make a ball busting comment that could be misconstrued as a serious comment.

It's difficult to think of new comments/replies for you to have used when you can't see everything she replied with.

Just as a general philosophy, try not to come across to excited to be talking to someone, or too keen to find out information about them.

Hope that was some help.

Cheers

Spig